The skids are constantly fighting. I'm tired to death of trying to sort out who did what first to cause the other skid to hit, push, punch, punish, the other.
I told them yesterday I cannot watch them 24 hours a day to decide who is doing what wrong. So my new rule: if the kids can't get along, both of them will be sent to their room. No arguing, no complainiing. Its as simple as that.
I told them we'll try this for a while and see how it works out for us.

Last week BM sent the kids home at nine oclock as agreed. But SS11 had not taken a shower or did his homework. His bedtime is 9:00. He had a free birthday pass for one free homework missed assignment. So it was not a big deal... because he still got an a.
I asked BF to remind her that she needs to have his homework done and he needs to have taken a shower.

SD17 called me today to see if I would go sign a paper at the school so the skids could get their h1n1 shots. of course I said I would, even though I was thinking that they probably sent the paper home with the kids and they just never showed us it, so now I have to go down there. The lady who works the front desk is always so rude and hits on BF. Gross.
So I go down there alone and sign the paper. SD17 says that its BMs day off and that she did not want to get out of bed so she told her to call me. NICE.

SD17 texted me the other morning, ended up with her agreeing to leave her car here in the afternoon, that way when we got back from Cali, she could just drive home. She agreed that it would be easier.
So we are getting ready, getting packed and here she comes rolling up with her boyfriend, in his TRUCK! Its not that I actually expected her to do what she said she was going to do. I immediately ran to BF and told him what had happened, that she agreed to drive her car here and leave it here, and now suddenly she shows up in her boyfriends car.