just last night actually,, she was being a bitch,and the conversations we have are always short and heated, she pisses me off soooo bad, she could drive me to start smoking again.

Nope but i have had to go to my room, steaming mad and pound the stuffing out of a pillow. She makes me sooo mad.

I have said some nasty things via email when she was trying to manipulate my husband, which I do not stand for (thats my job ;-)). We've had some heated arguements...in fact I went off on her thru text from my DH's phone a couple days ago and she backed down. I'm very stubborn }:)

"I child proofed my whole house, but they STILL get in!"

i have only talked to crazy girl once. i definitely wouldnt say that i lost it, but she definitely did. and as to how it made me feel, i almost laughed because it was just so freaking ridiculous. i said something like i understand how you feel, that you must want to know something about me, so go ahead and ask whatever you like and ill give you a straight answer.. she totally freaked out on me. started telling me i had no idea how she felt cause i didnt have kids blah blah blah. i just set the phone down and walked into the other room and let her go on and on. last thing i heard was "um heeelllooo??!" and then click. lol

"Life favors the risk taker."
EVASION

yes i have a couple of times. it felt good to let it all out to her face. she of course just stood there and when i was done began to cry and threten suicide, at which point i told her she wouldnt be hurting me, just sd11, so if she wanted to hurt me there were other ways to do it but i knew she didnt have the balls.

overall, it was fun.

Just once -- in a reply to a rude email she sent me, so she provoked it. My response to her made her so mad that she blocked my email and now refuses to talk to me (although she still tries to get favors from me through DH or SD from time to time). It's AWESOME to not have to talk to her!

BB

"No matter how cynical I get, it's never enough." - Lily Tomlin

I lost it once and I felt cheap afterward. Like I had bought into something less than what I deserved for myself. I felt gross about it for a while and I still get ashamed when I look back. It's upsetting to become involved in a stupid little game played by BM. I end up feeling like she wins when I react to her.

I did, within the last month. It was freaking awesome. I have never felt better. I have kept my mouth shut for 3 years and I couldn't let it go this time and it was awesome. I didn't yell or name call, I just stated facts. She on the other hand made an ass of herself and apologized, but I didn't make an ass or apologize. I don't talk to her anymore now. For the record, she started it, lol.

Yes, but unfortunately I cut loose on her via email. BM sent me a nasty email regarding her "beautiful daughters" and how I was supposedly mistreating them. I was so pissed off that I fired right back at her and then posted her email and my response, along with the sd's responses, on my myspace blog. I know, it wasn't very mature and certainly not the appropriate place to let loose, but I was so sick of hearing from her and my sd's just how terrible I was to them, how I didn't appreciate them, blah blah blah. Because of those messages, my sd's learned a lot more about their BM and everything that went on with her and my DH than they bargained for because I didn't mince my words and told it exactly how it was - even some really personal stuff that my DH and his family had told me. Am I sorry? Yes and no. It was time the skids knew the truth but myspace and email was not the best forum to air the dirty laundry.

Sure have. Several times. She knows exactly how I feel about everything that goes on. She is afraid to talk to DH (I think it still hurts her feelings that he thinks she is such an idiot) so she goes through me, and gets the same results. Maybe it is easier to hear it from me, because she has never been in love with me. I don't know. But her and I have gotten into some good ones over the past 5 years!

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~

BM is not my problem, she is my husbands. I never have spoken not even a word to her. I met her face to face once, I never said nothing to her and that was the last time. She has tried to get my goat going telling my husband that she was going to take ME to court for child support..well she can't I have no custody over her children and that law ended in my prov in 1998. She wanted a response out of me but instead I kept quiet. She then wanted to meet up for coffee , she had asked my husband..I said no to my H then he told her "No" then she tries to take the " nice road" and says " Tell your wife I said hello" my H will not respond. So she quit eventually. I never had kids with her, she's not my headache. I told my husband then maybe next time he will be alot more careful who he sticks his thing into.

Purpleflower

We got hostile is some emails, but only once did it get personal. She emailed me, my jeans look like white trash Needless to say she bought the same exact pair a week later,
I emailed her back that she must really like white trash . after I saw her in them at the soccer game.

I did once. She called my house...hung up on me. She called again...DH picked up. She chewed DH out, DH hung up on her. She called again. We ddn't answer...she called again, we didn't answer...she called again and I answered and said "IF YOU CALL MY HOUSE ONE MORE F$#%#$% time, I SWEAR I WILL CALL YOUR HUSBAND AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE CALLED DH NUMEROUS TIMES IN THE PAST AND FLIRTED WITH HIM, ETC...ON THE PHONE...SO DON'T EVER CALL MY F$%#$%$ HOUSE AGAIN OR YOU WILL BE VERY SORRY..."

NEVER CALLED AGAIN. It felt great. Never again did I have to worry about the phone ringing. That was over 7 years ago.

PS-we did change our phone, made it unlisted and I told DH if he ever gave it to her, or anyone, and she called MY house again, he was out...She has not had our home number ever since.