We've been married for a year on the 18th. Most of it has been pretty miserable, but we are dedicated to making it work and trying very hard to see what we will look like (or be doing) five years or even ten years from now. Last evening we talked about SD's behavior and the patterns of her behavior. Dad saw a glimpse of her that he normally chooses not to see, how sad for all of us. Mostly her... Anyway, for today and this weekend, I will choose to make my own way, my own happiness and NOT think about SD and her chaotic way of life.

well i havent really wrote a blog about whats going on in my life but a problem has come up and i dont now where to ask for a good opinion well se the problem is i droped of ss last night and bm wanted to talk and she droped a bomb on me about my b.f. mother and she is playing games on all of us so i called b.f.

SO BM GOT SS A CELL PHONE. HE IS 10 YRS OLD WHAT THE HECK IS HE GOING TO DO W/THAT????? SHE SAID SHE GOT IT SO SHE CAN HAVE DAILY CONTACT W/HIM....HELLO SHE SEES HIM 22 DAYS A MONTH! WE HAVE NEVER DENY HER CALLS FOR HIM WHEN HE IS W/US, IN FACT SHE DOESN'T EVEN CALL FOR HIM. SO TELL ME WHY IS SHE DOING THIS? I JUST DON'T BELIEVE IN GETTING A CHILD THAT YOUNG A PHONE....I'M AFRAID SS WILL BECOME MATERIALISTIC JUST LIKE HIS STUPID MOTHER!

My step daughter is my problem. She is 19, has a 6 month old daughter (father unknown), can't hold a job, doesn't want to work, wants Daddy to support her and granddaughter. She writes letters to her mother (in prison for meth) and tells her what a bi*** I am, then leaves letters on the table to be seen by all. Her mother and BF kicked her out while she was pregnant, we took her in with conditions (work, pay Hot check fines, do court ordered community service, etc.)....She had baby, stayed 4 weeks, went back to East Texas and did drugs until she had to call Daddy AGAIN for help.