BF was dropping SS off after visitation this weekend. BM has a habit of opening the door of the vehicle to help unload SS's stuff, but just standing there inside the door and talking to BF instead so that he can't pull away because he'd hit her with the vehicle or the door. So she's going on and on, and eventually she tells him that her laptop is broken again. She said it in a way that was evident to BF she wanted him to fix it. He said, "Considering the last time I worked on your laptop I was brought to court and accused of hacking it, I don't know what to tell you." Her jaw dropped!

I've read a lot about issues with money on the postings and it seems to be a common issue for everyone to some degree. In my situation we are expected to pay for any expenses that were not covered in the divorce decree. Small things, you know, things that aren't really important at all like...college, weddings and braces etc. (said with much sarcasm)

I am engaged to a man with a 15 yr old daughter who is sooooo attached to him. Long story, she has had some past abuse issues with women. Never met a good mom role model yet. I have been a mom for 17 years to my own kids and think I did ok, and they say so too. She is very jealous. When I talk to him on the phone at his place, she always starts messing with his hair or saying things in the background. If we are all together, and she sees us hugging, she leaves the room pouting.

I just want to scream. Last night the SD calls her dad and says to meet her outside the house because she wants to talk to him without the bitch (which would be me, I guess). So she drives up and sits on my front porch yelling and cussing at her father. She tells him that he has never been a father, etc., etc. Then she informs him that she hopes that I die from my breast cancer. Her exact words were "I hope that f***ing b**** dies! I hope she f***ing dies and leaves you all alone!" All of this is going on with my 11 year old son in the house with one of his friends.