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Since I have been on here and he has went to see the child. This is the thing I can not understand she has kept him away for a year, no phone calls no nothing. She went in 05 and got an order of protection against him and a temporary vistitation where he has to make arrangements with her mom to come see Kasie and that she was not suppose to be there. Well a week ago like I said out of the blue they call and want jeffrey to come see her so he and his mom went to go see her that is when I found out that they did not want me at their house visting with Kasie cause she is not mine.
If I've learned anything over the years, it's this: fake it 'till you make it. If you put on a suit that makes you look like a spiffy, in-charge sort of business woman, people tend to assume that's exactly what you are.
The strike idea some of you suggested is a great idea, but I already tried it and it didn't work. After a week I just ended up having to clean the house because I couldn't take it anymore. I do no longer go into my ss room because it is so disgusting. I used to go in there and clean about once a week but I would spend 2 hours in there.
I thought about having him wash his own laundry but I'm afraid he will break the washer or dryer.
The 14 y.o.'s b-day is in July. Last year BF,I, my daughter and the 9 y.o were in the store picking out a couple of small things for her before we dropped the 9 y.o. off. BF had no money at the time so I was prepared to pay. (BF wasn't even sure if he wanted to get her a gift considering she just got left back and is always in trouble.) BM called and started going off that I am not to be in the car when he dropped off the skid, saying she would have me arrested if I came to the home. Blah, blah.. So I got fed up and just left the store. 14 y.o. didn't get a present.
My fiancée and I had a big blow out he just doesn't seem to understand my feelings when it comes to the ex
Yesterday at about 9am I hear that bad weather is headed this way and that the schools in the tricounty area were going to close at noon. I immediately call my mom to go get my daughter at her preschool. I assume that BM is going to take care of SS. I hear later that his school is not going to close early. Around 3:30pm the weather gets really bad in that area. I call his house to see if he has gotten home yet. I don't get an answer. I call DH who is sleeping at home because he is working nightshift and ask him to try to get in touch with him to make sure he is alright.
So I've be doing alot of thinking about this engagement. We're planning on a wedding around valentines day next year. Although I love my bf more than anything in the entire world I will not settle for anything less than being #1.I have been married before for 8 long years and I will not go into a marriage unless all issues are worked out beforehand as I am not going though another divorce. We have been talking alot lately and even went to see a counsellor. I have narrowed it all down to one problem. He is worried about upsetting his ex.
Two days ago on the way to SS counselors appt. DH asked 6 year old SS if he still crawls in bed with BM. SS couldn't answer, he clammed up and wouldn't answer. DH kept at him saying he would ask his mother and of course then SS admitted that yes he still does. Something along the lines as he does before he goes to bed or watches TV and then she puts him in his bed. Really didn't get a straight answer. At counselor DH was rather upset and told counselor this is still going on.
Today my dh got a phone call from ss's school. He had been horsing around in school, and even though he was told twice to discontinue, he didn't listen and got in trouble. My dh came home from work, grounded ss and gave him a stern talking to about how important school is, and how he isn't entitled to distrupt other students in school. Then ss just laughed at his dad. My dh got in his face to let him know he was walking a fine line.
BF's that is. So we are "engaged" (no egagement ring but we had said July this year and have the wedding bands) and I have been truly looking at my role in this family and undecided if I was actually gonna be able to go through it. I have real issues with the fact that BM #2 (ex wife) will be a constant part of my life. I am having a big problem accepting that as my lifes fate. I just found out this afternoon that BF has been lying to me (yet again, we just went through this in July, August, September and October 2006) about his contact with his daughters BM (BM#2).
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