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Ex at wedding

frustrated's picture

Hi im new to this site.
Im really angry and upset. I am getting married in a few months and cannot believe that my fiance has invited his ex to our wedding.

My fiance has a son from a previous relationship and his ex has done nothing but cause major problems (jealousy tantrums/using their son as a weapon/manipulation etc).

For years I have dreamed about getting married and am looking forward to married life, even though we have lived together for the past 9 years. I just can't seem to deal with the fact that she is coming to my wedding.

Hi y'all, been gone but back with new chapter

jlmtik164's picture

Hi everyone, today I have been trying to update myself on whats going on with everyone. Since my last blog, I felt like I was going to hit rock bottom with all the craziness that was going on and I decided to take time off and go to my parents' house and get myself together. I left my older daughter with my sister and took the younger one with me. BF was not amused but I had to do what I needed to do for my sanity. I came back yesterday and I am so refreshed. BF and I didn't talk much while I was at my parents' so he was updating me of his divorce situation yesterday.

Weirdness at family therapy

Caitlin's picture

Weirdness maybe isn't the right word, because this crap is so typical of BM, but anyway... Last night, my fiance went over to BM's apartment for their weekly Family Based Therapy appointment. The hour-long appointment actually only lasted an HOUR this time! (It's been 2+ hours every week because the therapists let BM blather on about BF's incompetencies for an hour and a half before they get to anything relevant, if at all.) Last night when the therapists told her once again to drop it and move on, she actually said that she was trying to establish a pattern of him being untrustworthy.

Stupid Stupid Woman.

Daddysgirl's picture

So I have been reading through a few blogs this morning as I have been away from my computer for a dew days... trying to play catch here in our world. Anyways, I cam across one that mentioned (forgive me I can't remember who posted it) that if Step Mom comes up with a resolution- it is immediatly shot down by BM... Funny because we just had a MAJOR blow out last night because of this.

Update

Steamed's picture

Seems like every day lately is another chapter in the drama...

First, had a talk with SD and sponge last night, he doesn't want to live with his mom, says that she is a psyco bitch, manipulative and controlling (his words). He wants to get his life together, start doing something and move forward. I again stated my reservations about trusting him, but was willing to listen. Please don't slam me too bad but I agreed to let him move back in with the following conditions which we actually wrote up as a contract that him and I both signed:

nothing ever changes

ssandberg's picture

Had 1 year anniversary...two days out of town, couldn't wait to get back...have trouble being around him these days, don't like him much any more...had to leave for training in another city for three days, he spent every waking hour with his kids, especially SD....I didn't even get a hug, how was it when I got home!! ..Before I left, I told him I had a new "rule" for MY household..he and she could no longer have their "private, father, daughter talks" at my house, she has an apartment (that he pays for) and if they wanted to talk privately he could go over there.

he told them he hated them and now hes taking me to court

hammesamie's picture

So my kids dad is taking me to court because he doesnt want to pay all the child support he is paying. He thinks that now that Scott and I are getting married, his payments should get lower. So after the child support recovery unit denied his case he went and hired a private attorney. This is after he told me the reason he couldn't see the kids is because after child support he has no gas money, and he can't even keep food in his house, etc. etc.

taxes

meshel's picture

ok....big problem here...BM is having another fit over $$$....My husband has custody of his son.....he lives w/ us (moved in over the summer), so when we went to H&R block to do our taxes...they put down 2 for dependents: my SS, and our baby who was born in Oct....because they "live in our household"....well, BM wrote nasty e-mail and claims that we stole her tax return & the IRS is "on to us"...whatever....we have not even recieved our $$ yet...the IRS was holding it because of child support issues...and we got that all cleared up...we even spoke to the IRS in the process.

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