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Well guys not pregnant false alarm......But new drama going on...FH ex step daughter came by work and was upset over breakup with boyfriend...she is 20 yrs old...Fh talked to her like i have never heard him talk before in the 6 years we have been together..He talked to her like she was 2 years old...Oh baby, sweetheart..and on and on...I bought puked...Then she wanted to be alone and left her and went driving around....Ex wife calls work lookin for her..and told Fh that she was gonna call the law if she didnt come home...She is 20 years old how stupid is this....And FH just talks to ex like
I wanted to thank ALL of you. B4 I found this site I was hopeless & frustrated. I felt like a monster all the time. I was unsure of my self as a stepparent and what is the right things to do and what the boundries are. I have no one around me to relate to. BM and my famuly give me grief. the only one who understands and gives me credit is my MIL. But you all have made me realize I'm not the monster and my feels and thoughts are normal and OK. A huge weight as been lifted off of me. I can smile once again and be confident again when I need to deal with BM. THANK YOU for sharing.
So my New Years resolution was to try and reach out to BM, the lady who I had arrested 2 times because she threatened to kill me then broke an order of protection. She also has called my work in the past tring to get me fired and wrote a letter, she claims I broke confidentiallity laws, but obviously did not. She has called DSS on me 3 times tring to get my foster daughter taken away, which did not happen we are now adopting her. She refused to knock on my door to get her son last Friday, she called my DH to have him call me to send out my 4 year old SS.
I'm new here and been wanting to share my story.
Our BM is the fakest and the most evil person alive. She is also the queen of gossip. Not a day passes without her talking about people behind their backs. I've come to believe that she thrives on gossiping and trying to believe that she's better than everybody. In fact, she's not! The weird thing is, she puts up this nice, super caring facade in front of many people-- including us-- but if you could rip her open, you'll see how she's reeking with hatred, anger, and insecurity.
Thanks for all your support. Tonight SD15 made it clear that she's failing photography. How can you fail photography? She wants DH to make it all better by emailing the teacher and giving some excuse as to why she didn't do her project during holiday vacation. He actually told her no way. I couldn't believe it. Last week they took a day trip to NYC (before New Years) and she took pictures there. She asked DH to find out from her teacher if she could show those pictures. She was supposed to take pictures of Valley Forge, which is only 2-1/2 miles away from us.
Hello all,
I have found myself coming to read these forums after every incident with BM, and always was relieved (though sad) to find there were women out there experiencing the same things I was. I have four children in the home, one from a previous relationship, a 9-year-old stepson and two babies with my husband.
And I made it clear to H that this is my priority. I will not fail this because of interference.
So-girls, I haven't been to school in decades. But! I did have to take insurance class and pass the exam-that was about 7 years ago..and I did have to learn two new jobs in the last two years-one working with chemicals, which was totally foreign to me-and I succeeded. So I know the ol brain cells aren't totally dead.
Gonna eat alot of walnuts & salmon! Dr. Oz said they're brain food-along with olive oil. Hmmm. Also fish oil, B vitamins...I'm going shopping tomorrow!
Does anyone know how to go about having BM's taxes garnished for back child support? I'm in Washington State.
so my car issue turns out to be a blown head gasket :jawdrop:
my car is a 2002 but only has 61,000 miles on it!! over $1000 to fix. i am so livid. because:
I am doing some writing and have asked Dawn's permission to post questions here for input.....
So, how do you feel about being a step parent?
If someone asked you to define a step parent,(aside from the obvious answer) how would you define it? What would that definition look like for you?
Thanks for all your input!!!!
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