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Submitted by nicole on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 4:26pm

Well guys not pregnant false alarm......But new drama going on...FH ex step daughter came by work and was upset over breakup with boyfriend...she is 20 yrs old...Fh talked to her like i have never heard him talk before in the 6 years we have been together..He talked to her like she was 2 years old...Oh baby, sweetheart..and on and on...I bought puked...Then she wanted to be alone and left her and went driving around....Ex wife calls work lookin for her..and told Fh that she was gonna call the law if she didnt come home...She is 20 years old how stupid is this....And FH just talks to ex like they are still married..Told her to calm down that all would be fine, that ex step daughter would call...does this sound strange...The ex step daughter treats me like im not around and talked about her mom the whole time she was here...Im sorry it makes me SICK....She is remarried and the Girls have a new step Dad..where was he...does he not get tired of the ex calling every Tom Dick and Harry about her problems with the Ex step Brats.....They are grown 20 and 23 years old....Just crazy...also he got a dentist bill at my house that had work she had done on it..he said account just hadnt been changed, but my address was on the bill...he hasnt been to the dentist since he moved in with me....It showed what insurance had paid and everything...he said it was a billing mistake...WAS IT?? or is he paying this bill...I know she has to have insurance with new husband right? My fh and her have been divorced for years.....

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Submitted by Anon2009 (not verified) on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 5:22pm

If he doesn't, why is he communicating with her? Is the father of the ex-SDs out of the picture, and your FH is the father figure? I doubt it was a billing mistake. I think it's more like your FH is not being honest with you. That YOUR address showed up on the bill is very, very fishy. If he and BM have been divorced for years, shouldn't SHE be paying her own bills? Maybe her DH needs to be alerted as to what has been going on regarding her calling everyone and their brother about the ex-SDs and about the bill of hers that showed up at your house. You definitely need to confront FH about this. There is absolutely no reason why he should be paying HER bills. I just don't understand some of these men...they need to grow some balls when it comes to dealing with their exes!

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Submitted by nicole on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 3:06pm

amen sister......I dont understand how the EX wives get it all and we get squat...They are Exes for a reason.....I dont get it..No the father of these girls is in the picture...He lives like to houses down from the girls mother...How crazy is that..I told you all this is Jerry Springer....She has BD to the girls, ex husband and now new husband......its really messed up

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Submitted by bewitched on Thu, 01/08/2009 - 8:16am

"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere

Until he decides grown daughter means GROWN, and ex-wife means EX, he's not suitable for any decent woman.

I remember breaking up with bf's (of course, by the time I was your sd's age, I was married w/kids). I never cried to my parents over it. Just had my little sad times, when to work, school, whatever, and went on w/my life. Too bad precious can't handle REAL life without daddy.