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A fellow co-worker just went through a divorce about a year ago. He had 3 sons. His oldest was 15. On this past Tuesday his son took his own life. The funeral is today. It was not real common knowledge but some people knew that it was a bad divorce and that the kids were having a really hard time with everything. Now I do not know if that is why his son did this but it is said that the father believes that was the reason.
With everything that's going on in our lives, I thought it might be nice to send a cheery HAPPY SPRING to you all! Much love! I hope Spring brings you happiness and prosperity 
Sometimes I really just wanna reach out and touch someone-and by this I really mean I wanna reach out and slap that BM-except that we all know BM splatters-ha ha. My spoiled ass rotten kids bio and step have evry single xbox 360 game imaginable-I mean all of them. We have always had the gaming systems at our house until finally BM went and bought one for her house. No problem. We told the kids they could always take whatever games (and any of their crap for that matter) to their mom's simply because it's theirs to do with as they please.
I'm the SM of 3 Skids. I have pretty much been the primary mom for most of their lives. 3 years ago the BM took us to court for standard visitation rights, she wanted tax exemptions, she wanted a decrease of child support (She's only obligated to pay $180 per month for 3 kids), and she wanted us to provide all transportation for visitations. She lives 40 minutes away.
The judged denied everything except he ordered that we provide 50% of the transportation. We have diligently followed the court order to a tee since then.
Hello everyone!
I have a question. I think I know the answer, but I am hoping someone will ease my guilt. LOL
Ladies I think every one of us needs to go for a day of pampering and find our inner goddess. That's what I'm going to do tomorrow. I've booked a day at a day spa for the total treatment and as many mimosas as I can hold. I guess you could say I'm preparing for what's waiting at home. I say we find our strength and kick some monkey butt. 
For those who read my email to SD17, one of the things I told her was she can knock when she comes over. Because of several reasons.
1) She hit the door screaming last time she came
2) My bedroom is right off the living room-no hall. I could've been in there changing clothes or something-it has an arched doorway, so no door between the bedroom and living room.
3) She does not live here.
4) She usually has her bf w/her when she comes over.
Ever had one of those days where even your fat jeans are tight and your hair looks like a fright wig??? This morning I got up and scared myself when I looked in the mirror.
I want to thank all of you for your words of encouragement!!! I had started to feel like maybe I was over reacting b/c of DH's attitude. I had even felt guilty about calling the FBI, thinking maybe I was just going to make a volatile situation even worse.
After all the blogs I've read on here about the bio kids getting the shaft because of high cs for SKs or SKs getting the "poor you" treatment, I feel really bad for dad's kids with the 2nd wife! And this is odd to me because I am the child of my dad & mom's first marriage...they divorced and I am the one that felt like I got the shaft because I didn't have my parents together, I was always missing out on some family thing with one side while I was visiting with the other side.
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