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Is this a good thing?

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We got email from our attorney that said she ran into BM's attorney at the court house she wanted to know if we were willing to get together again for an informal mediation with our attorneys before we are supposed to go to court next month.

We trying for 50/50 and our date is Sept 24th. They all been going to counseling and that not going all great for BM as she has said she angry H wants more time and she has no reason why he should not have more time. also counselor told that the past needed to be let go of cause it was hurting SS.

Outline for Counseling...In your face BM

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Yesterday I posted on how H gets aggravated in the counseling sessions with BM cause she is acting Ms. Perfect and running her mouth and he just says nothing rather than blowing his top. So we did an outline of Goals, Issues, Questions, and the Parental Alienation signs that SS has. H took it to counseling last night.

Here are the highlights in no particular order:

BM: SS is afraid of his dad
Counselor: no, I have talk to SS and he is not afraid of his dad, he loves his, he loves his dad

Counseling

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So my last blog or 2 has been about the counseling that H, SS, and BM are attending and how H feels counselor is taking BM side and he is the only one participating.

Well BM goes in there and acts all high and mighty and perfect. Well of course this infuriates H and he wants to jump across the room and choke her but that is not the best course of action for obvious reasons. Well when he sees her being like this in addition to wanting to cause some physical pain he gets so upset and has so much to say that he does not know what to say or where to start so he shuts down.

ADHD children and my thoughts, vents, and rambles

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SS has ADHD. My SS, H and the BM have been attending counseling for SS. The past 2 weeks H and BM have had session with counselor seperate from SS session.

During those 2 sessions BM has stated that H is to hard on SS and that he has no patience with him. Her reasons for us being to hard were due to his chore list which consists of: make bed, hang up clothes, take out trash, set table, clean off table, sweep floor after eating. Then H has no patience because of his ADHD.

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