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Still Frustrated but things are improving!
Well things in this marriage are still volatile, but MY situation is improving. I have a part time job that is moving closer to full time. FULL TIME equals FREEDOM!
He has to get the skids today and all I can do is dread the entire weekend. I don't want to deal with the lot of them.
The moron got drunk last night (BIG SHOCK!)Woke me up to pick a fight. So throughout my months of hell, I've learned that you absolutely cannot talk to a drunk...which is why I slept on the couch. Then at 3:00 a.m. he came out woke me up to ask me to come to bed. WTH!!!!!!!!
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At Parents
Well I've been at my parents for about a week. Not sure which is more stressful. After hearing how my father talks to me and to my mother, it's no wonder I ended up in the situation I'm in now.
Live and learn.
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Give me a break!
Well now I'm told I'm the cause of all his depression, I'm the reason he drinks, he was fine before I came along and blah blah blah. I told him if that's the case than as soon as I get full time job he's free to leave. Well he didn't want that.
The whole thing is revolting to me!
I let him have it (verbally of course). I told him he needs to be a man, take responsibility for his own problems and quit blaming everything on everyone else in his life.
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Update from last night
He doesn't remember ANYTHING from last night!!!!!
He's given me all the "sorry, it will never happen again" blah blah blah
I chewed him out for probably 30 minutes and so did his mother, but I've come to the conclusion that he won't be changing. I have plans for this weekend and the last week of the month!
I'm praying tomorrow I find out that I have a job.
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I'm Done -- Finished -- I Quit!
I've had it -- I see no reason to work on this horrid marriage one more day!
Here are my last three entries in the log I keep on him...
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Putting Myself First
I've absolutely had it up to my eyeballs with this whole screwed up mess! I'm tired of how DH shows no consideration to me and I'm tired of how BM and the oldest skid has treated me.
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Just Call Me The Wicked Witch Of The West!
Every since I told him exactly how I feel about the skids and his interaction with them or lack there of, things have been hell! I'm so sick of all of this. I swear I was married to be nothing more than a baby sitter. I'm so sick of my life. I haven't felt like I had so few options since I lived with my parents!
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I Put My Foot Down!
Mommy Dearest is at it again! I told my husband that there is NO WAY we are giving into her this time! I've had it, apparently neither one of them believed me when I told them they'd pushed me to my limit!
I'm not giving into ANYTHING else with this whack-o! She can throw whatever temper-tantrum she wants but the only thing she'll get is a hoarse voice!
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The more I think about egg donors...
I read a post to a blog entry that I put up last night when I was frustrated and when I was scared that this ridiculous BM was trying YET AGAIN to make my life miserable and take away the one thing in my life that brings me peace, happiness, and yes joy!
At first I apologized for offending this woman but the more I think about it the more I want to change my response to this...
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I hope Karma bites her REALLY hard!
OMG -- the egg donor/BM has gone to far now! Heaven forbid I have one enjoyable thing in my life. The stupid BM is trying to get one of the skids to lie and say that my dog bit her. I told DH that he better buck up, stand up to her, or he's watching them EVERY weekend from here on out all by himself! And he'll NEVER do that! So mommy dearest will be on her own with the skids until she learns to play by MY RULES!
My rules are simple...BM keeps her nose out of my house and my life! and BM does not abuse the skids.
That's not asking much!
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