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I am in the medical field and of course in my mind BM is "bowel movement" -so, every time I read or write BM as bio-mom I get a small kick out of it and laugh just a little to myself. My hubby's ex is now referred to as BM-LOL
My three stepsons 11,16,17 are wonderful boys with morals and dignity (boy did I get lucky). I have tried very hard to always do the right thing and protect them from any harm, but now I am not sure what to do.
Their bio-mom cheated on their father after 10 yrs of marriage, then again after 15. The second time, he tried counseling ad all that, but she wanted no part of it. She wanted to fly to another country to see some guy she met online and "wa in love with". When she got on the plane, he left her.
I was wondering about this and would really like your opinion about it :
I know this is so whatever compared to all the big things but the little things start to add up. Like for example today Bm dropped off the Skid before CHURCH and brought her in walmart jeans and a shirt with a monster hole in it. At least I got my brand new shoes I just bought for the skids, although their now stained, scuffed, and the skid was wearing no socks. Not to mention her hair was a diaster center.
Okay, so my SD8 has her figure skating show all weekend. Who is the one that made sure she has everything ready? Has her hair and makeup done? Whose costume fits and is put on correctly? How gets her flowers and takes responsibility for everything??? ME ME ME!!! I don't mind but no appreciation. Guess what the Socio (BM) isn't even showing up!! Go figure, I'm actually happy.
With the last episode with the BM and the hair gel and her sending my SS17 into MY house to remove it from where I said to put it, I told my husband things were going to change, and change from this point on.
With my SS11, he is no longer allowed to bring anything in MY house from his mother, she can keep the shit at her house. He is also not allowed to keep anything in his brother's room from BM or SS17 will also lose his privilege of having anything brought in by her.
I can't understand why I can't like (forget love) my ss7. I mean I have tried to think of every reason I SHOULD like him. His mom is on the other coast and she doesn't call or write or anything much so I am his "mother" model. He's not a bad kid really, I just find everything about him annoying to the point to I get sick to my stomach when I have to be around him for more than 15 seconds. I don't know why when he talks I cringe, when he laughs I cringe, everything he does makes me cringe. I don't get it, I don't know why I feel like this.
Well my DH decided to not let SS stay the night on a school night at his BMs. I do not know if it was me or his aunt and uncle but my DH told me he was going to pick SS up on Sunday because it was a school night and SS is doing so much better these past 2 months with potty trainning and not whinning all the time, and just being a 4 year old. DH told BM until she can be civil and until the appeal is over and until she can call his house and not his cell to talk to SS and until her parents stop threatening his life then he can not stay over on a school night.
Not sure if you have heard of this:
http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/4727161/
Quick synopsis:
The judge ruled that at the father's request the children stop being home-schooled by their mother and go to public school.
So my hubby's ex left her kids to be with her boyfriend in another county. So, basically we raise the kids. They are here with us 5 days a week. Since we provide the permanent home, we try to set the rules for the most part and play the "bad guy" role in parenting. We don't mind, because we have the kids more and eventually they will grow up and realize who the real parents were.