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A lot is going down today and forgive me but I need to get it out. After 3 straight weeks of SD (hateful, nasty) BM finally took her court ordered week of custody last week. That's over today - this is H's week. So I am holding my breath waiting to see how SD acts this evening. Either BM has filled her with ammunition to be even more nasty and hateful or, like H hopes for, SD has realized over the past week how good H and I are to her. What i don't understand is why over the summer when BM was homeless and H had full custody (not on paper) SD was a different person.
Surprise, Surprise. So SD showed up to BF's birthday party after all. Not that BF or I had ANY idea that she was going to show. Nope, we didn't know till we walked in the door at MIL/FIL house and there she was. BM had dropped her off. Why would ANYONE need to keep the bio-father and his partner in the loop on SD's schedule?!?!?!? That means we got to drive 45mins out of our way to take her home after that we were not planning on. The poor dog was dying to get out and go to the bathroom when we got home because I hadn't planned on us being so late at MIL.
Step Snot walked up to me in the kitchen on Friday night to inform me that she needs new gym clothes and gym shoes...I just looked at her like she was crazy and said, " Talk to your father about that."
So, DH sits down at the table with Step Snot...I am overhearing the entire conversation but going about my business like I am not paying attention...I know it was something I was meant to hear but I just played it off to avoid his attempts to drag me into the conversation. I know DH was trying to "dig" me because I blew off his darling and told her to go to him about clothes...
I am so glad that I happened upon this site. I have been searching at times for something that fits into my situation - adult step daughter.
Last year was the year from hell for me. Sd moved in with her two kids, and she will never win the title of "mother of the year" nor "daughter of the year." "The Drama Drunk Queen" is her title.
I will just say here that she wants her Daddy all to herself while she lays on her ass getting drunk and doing nothing productive. Ain't happening!
Anyway more later with my story.
Hope you all noticed the sarcasm there.
Friday, H wanted to supposedly take his d's out of town shopping-then suddenly acted like he decided not to take SD14 because of her grades. I immediately then said I would love to go! Because....I knew he and SD17 planned this all along...him to take her shopping, and tho he's telling me how we have to cut out any spending, he was going to blow a wad on her.
Hey all of you ! I am new to this blog but so happy I found it. from what I've read so far a lot of you have the same situation as me. I'm a mom of 3 and stepmom of 2 who live with their BM. My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for 7.You would think that after 9 years his ex would back off and leave us alone; she'a always calling for money and whenever she feels like it (that's what it looks like to me)my husband used to say that he won't answer her calls 'cause she's annoying him.
After BM's weekend, SS11 came over on Tues visitation and seemed to be in a mood. DH asked only 1 question....How are you doing? And out came the flood gates. All weekend SS11 was hounded by BM about wanting to live with DH. That bioytch actually told him that if he lived with him then he would see her for 7 years and read him emails from DH and her. (he could be so lucky if that was the case)
Needless to say, DH was pissed called his attorney who then in turn called the GAL. The GAL came over for a surprise visit and spke to all the boys. She wasn't happy when she left.
If you opened your email and it was still signed in under your husband and saw a sent email sent to a stranger that said
"You have one intoxicating smile, take care"
Would you be pissed or not??? Am I overreacting???!!!
This battle has been going on for quite sometime. Some of my past blogs talk about it as well. Last year BM starting giving Omegas (fish oil) to SD in hopes of stablizing her behavior...didnt work. Starting last summer she put her on Zyrtec for her allergies to pollen and senstivity to cats. This seemed to help with her allergy symptoms. Cooler weather came, SD was still given the zyrtec. It is now winter and SD has starting back on a 2.5mg dosage of zyrtec. Here's why.
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