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Submitted by spitfire on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 10:08am

I wanted to thank ALL of you. B4 I found this site I was hopeless & frustrated. I felt like a monster all the time. I was unsure of my self as a stepparent and what is the right things to do and what the boundries are. I have no one around me to relate to. BM and my famuly give me grief. the only one who understands and gives me credit is my MIL. But you all have made me realize I'm not the monster and my feels and thoughts are normal and OK. A huge weight as been lifted off of me. I can smile once again and be confident again when I need to deal with BM. THANK YOU for sharing.

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Submitted by secondwife20 on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 10:28am

I felt that way too before I found this site. Everyone here is so wonderful and supportive, and I've never been so happy to find an incredible group of people than I have been when I came across this site. I discovered that my thoughts and feelings were absolutely normal and understood... and I think that that's the most important thing... is that everyone here understands. No one is hated or judged here (except for our nasty BM's!) because everyone has been there or done that.

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Submitted by spitfire on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 11:53pm

hearing more about your schooling. I am also in school for the health care field

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Submitted by Sia on Wed, 01/07/2009 - 11:13am

that way at 1st. But, through support of others, you will make it through! We all do. Keep your head up and post here often, it will help! This site has been a life saver for me many many many times, too many to count! I felt the same way before finding this site. I have been to other public sites, but this one is where I have made some life long friends!