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update: MA went online and took a quiz to see if he is depressed. Hm..no suprise it said he was mildly depressed. (yea don't say....I thought the same).
I just need to get this out.....anywhere...
As we know SD is failing to launch and well becoming a selfish little pita. SMH...
Starry called me this evening. I typically don't answer when she calls anymore, but she couldn't reach DH. She only calls me when she can't reach him first.
Something inside compelled me to answer this call. She asked me if DH and I were busy this evening. She sounded flustered. Then she told me that her little sister (who is almost 19) called her "bawling her eyes out" and said that their stepdad died of a heart attack.
He was 47.
So anyway, YSD18 will be at our home Mon - Weds this week, then not again until early August due to DH's and BM's schedule, then she goes to college mid-August.
Quick recap for those that don't remember or know me:
My future husband was married before and had a son, they have been divorced for many years and his son lived with his mother in Spain until now that he is an adult and now lives with us in London.
Lets talk Enviro-Terrorist idiocy.
Lets protest some unfounded envirobullshit by spraypainting Stone Henge.
WTF!
If SParents could raise all kids without interference, we would not have to see stuff like Stone Henge spray painting dipshits.
Those kids would never be seen after some dumbass teen bullshit.
Its finally here. The youngest is 18, and she graduated a couple weeks ago.
We've been 50/50 custody, and week on/week off with the kids, all along. So we have had just as much time and effort with them as their mom. Also, we are a little better off than her, financially, so we end up paying for most of the extras. I don't care about that, for the reason you'd think. As a former child of divorce, myself, I want them to live comfortably no matter who they're with, not living in poverty with her, then coming here to a markedly different level of comfort.
The other day, I was thinking about something DH said to me several years ago:
"I don't think you're able to handle being a stepmother -- being married to someone with a child that isn't yours."
That was in the days when he was more hung up on the happy family vision -- one he finally dropped.
For some reason, it popped back into my head. The truth is for me (and probably many of you), it's not that I can't handle being a step. It's that DH couldn't handle being married to someone who isn't his child's mother.
So my wife met up with her son this weekend. I wish I had good news on the relationship but I unfortunately don't.
My wife told me he aired out alot of stuff he was holding in. She told me about how the entire conversation went down.
So last week I posted my first blog entry asking for help becuase my SO and I caught his 15 year old son throwing our cat on camera and calling her a B****. This was a few months after he was caught on camera at his moms house abusing his 3 cats before she passed. I did end up taking our cat Midnight to my moms house and she has been adjusting well and has a lot more room and a better view. So i feel relived she is in a safe space and I no longer have to worry about him trying anything again.