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Submitted by Cover1W on Sat, 08/10/2024 - 9:27pm

...has left the building.

Shell be on her way to college in six days. DH did good with her while she was here.

They talked, actually talked. He told her he and I were having some personal things to deal with and this I was in the guest room. He's out to dinner with her now, one last time before she goes back to BMs. She ate out TWICE while here, astounding.

....continuation 2

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Submitted by Cover1W on Fri, 07/26/2024 - 4:28pm

So H is back.

I have no fear he's going to hurt anyone at all. So I am safe, 100%.

He has spoken with his therapist 2x - and will likely continue with her several times a week for now. We don't think hospitalization is needed at this point. He agrees he is not in a state of suicide at this point, even though it's still in the background for him.

Update on my Situation

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Submitted by Cover1W on Tue, 07/16/2024 - 1:48pm

Ok, I've been processing a LOT. I have a counselor I like, we've had one meeting so far, and another for later this week; we'll be meeting weekly for the forseeable future (I'm lucky she's a Zoom user because it's not easy for me to get to the city due to location).

It's been hard. I've been mostly angry, some sadness is starting to set in now though. Anxiety too.

DH May be Blowing It

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Submitted by Cover1W on Mon, 07/08/2024 - 1:18pm

I don't want to add details here right now, but suffice it to say that I am concerned our marriage may not last much longer. He's currently away for the month, including him spending time with his family (this is a long story in itself), and some things have come to light so now I'm fully aware of, at least mostly, his situation.

I have a list of things to discuss with him when he returns and if he doesn't want to talk about it, stalls or doesn't answer truthfully, and refuses to get a marriage counselor I think we are done.

I did not expect it to go this way at all.

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