DH heard from SD over the weekend. So far everything was ok there. SD did tell DH that Beaver said the other boy, GWR's friend who I will call Eddie Haskel here....is not allowed over to there house anymore, not even when SD is not there.
I looked at DH and asked..How long you think that will last. Dh...about a month and then Beaver will relent since GWR will be unhappy and Beaver can't have that. That and GWR will pull the...I'm suicidal unless I get what I want card.
Also, no mention of any punishment for GWR.....anyone shocked? yea were weren't either.
Dh didn't even get a chance to call the school when the principal called him this morning at 8:15 a.m. DH and the principal are on first name basis since they have been dealing with the GWR for a few years now. The assistant Principal is brand new this year and was not aware of GWR's past shenannigans.
Update number 2..
The school got the annonymous report this morning and called both SD and GWR down to the office. They seperated them and began to ask questions.
this is the account according to SD...
She was waiting in outer office to enter the Asst. Principal's office and over heard the resource office talking to GWR.
The resource officer asked GWR if he knew why he was there. Of course GWR said he didn't. The RO informed him was suspected of being involved in inappropriate text messages to another student.
In the end I did tell DH what I had found. Turns out SD had told him most of the story, she left out the sexual part. I informed of that part. DH is disgusted, annoyed and very disappointed that this is his own son. DH tried to raise SS to be better about.
I told him because I figured he needed to know
Why didn't I want to..
DH's go to used to be to send a message to Beaver. However, that is like pissing up a tree. The tree doesn't get watered and DH just gets piss all over him.
SD and GWR (aka SS) go to the same high school now. SD is Freshman and GWR should be a senior but failing classes and dropping out of the automotive program make him....a pseudo Sr...who knows.
At any rate..GWR is at the high school with SD. Apparently, today GWR thought it would be Hilarious to give out SD's phone number to his friends and tell everyone that SD would be happy to give BJ's to everyone. SD's phone blew up with random text and calls from people she doesn't know, etc. One of SD's friends older sisters clued SD in on GWR's shenannigans. SD was MORTIFIED.
Why its SD in an adult size unicorn onsies. SD was about 12 when this happened. The sleep over story reminded me of this one.
SD has a terrible habit of coming to our house in her PJ's and flip flops. If DH has to pick up SD from the Beaver den he knows SD will be wearing PJ's. Smh. This is so common that if we need to go anywhere after pickup, we bring SD proper clothes and shoes.
DH has two siblings, a sister and a brother. Sister in law...really nice person, good mom, etc. Been marred for almost 20 years and has two sons, nephew number 3 and 4, ages 14 and 12. Both nephew 3 and 4 are good kids and are doing well. Brother in law..ugh straight up sh*t show. BIL is a drug addict and his drug of choice these days are oxy and meth. Oh joy...his estranged wife is no better and is running the local drug den in their little town in the midwest. BIL has done so many drugs that he has fried his brain. He is now exhibits many neurological tics and is disabled. s
things like insurance information, etc. Like really.....oy. 6 more months....and we can ignore anything from Beaver regarding the GWR. After March if GWR wants any information, etc he better put on his big boy pants and ask DH directly. However, after March he better get his own insurance cause DH and I will be dropping him from insurance as fast as we can. Me..I will be dropping him with this years open enrollment in October..and DH will with his next open enrollment in July.
Beaver I am pretty sure is a boarderline personality disordered person. She fits almost all the criteria.
In true BPD fashion Beaver and her whole family (who I believe are all personality disordered in some fashion) have a golden child and a scape goat.
The Great White Rapper (GWR) is the golden child for Beaver and her beaver dam. Why...not sure.
1. It could be he was the first born and the first grandchild.
2. It could be that he is the more easily lead and influanced (aka controled)
Too say that I'm a little odd is like saying the grand canyon is just a pothole. I'm 4 foot 11 inches on a good day...and I am unqiue. I have tattoos...on my forearms, my upper arms, my back and some elsewhere that hasn't seen the light of day in ages..I have piercings...many on my ears and my nose. I also am inclined to dye my hair whatever color of the rainbow that trips my fancy. Yep, I'm every kids nightmare for a mom. :) Right now...my hair is rose gold. I haven't seen my real hair color since about 1984.