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Am I the toxic one?

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Submitted by natalie on Thu, 08/22/2024 - 3:42pm

My 14 year relationship is coming to an end. I ended it. But I am absolutley devestated and it has taken every ounce of strengthI had left to stay strong on this. We have fought so many times and told each other we were done but it never lasted long. But it's now been almost 5 days since we have spoken and I'm trying to stay strong because part of me feels like this is what i need to do and everyone in my life agrees. But I've been told everything is my fault for so long that I can't help but question now that maybe it partly is.

SS intentionally peeing on his bedroom floor

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Submitted by natalie on Sun, 07/14/2024 - 1:54pm

Has anyone experienced a SS peeing on their floor? My SO just found this out today. SS is 15 years old. The last few weeks he has been telling me he smells pee and for some reason I haven't picked up on the smell. But finally this morning he went into SS room while SS was in the bathroom and SO said it smells very strong of pee and he discovered the carpet was soaked behind the bedroom door and when he went to smell it he said it smelled very strong of pee. We longer have any pets in the house so the only explanation is SS peed on the floor. He lied a few times when asked about it.

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Should I continue paying rent?

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Submitted by natalie on Mon, 07/08/2024 - 3:56pm

So I made two previous posts on here about a situation I was dealing with where my SO's 15 year old son moved in with us and started becoming aggresive with our cat and I had to take her to my mom's house. Shortly after that I made a decision to move in with my mom for the time being for multiple reasons including issues within our relationship, our apartment being too small for the 3 of us and financially. My goal was for us to work on ourselves and for me to get my debt paid off and work on my credit and he could focus on his son. We are still together and still love each other.

Update on SS abusing cat situation

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Submitted by natalie on Thu, 06/20/2024 - 2:54pm

So last week I posted my first blog entry asking for help becuase my SO and I caught his 15 year old son throwing our cat on camera and calling her a B****. This was a few months after he was caught on camera at his moms house abusing his 3 cats before she passed. I did end up taking our cat Midnight to my moms house and she has been adjusting well and has a lot more room and a better view. So i feel relived she is in a safe space and I no longer have to worry about him trying anything again.

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