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Well my SD turned 18 and went out and got her nose pierced. My BS has a tattoo that he got when he turned 18 and my SS and SD want to get one as well. My H hates tattoos and piercings. He doesn't know about the nose earring yet but will find out when he gets home from work today. I warned him last night she might come home with one and he said he guesses that's better than the tattoo because she can at least remove it. I asked her if she got a tattoo as well and she said no, so we will see. My ex has a tattoo and so my son thought it was ok for him to get one as well.
Did I mention how, because of the crazy bm we have the skids THIS weekend as well as last weekend?? no? sorry.
Ha.. we were not suppose to have them last weekend (a LOOONNNNGGG
WEEKEND) but had them because the weekend before that the BM wanted to keep them.
What does all this mean?! I just got rid of them on Monday evening.. and we will be picking them up again on Saturday am. I do need a break.. and I am not getting it.
On June 6th, 8 days from now, the restraining order between BM and myself will be expired. I wonder how long it will take her to contact me for the first time? What do you guys think? I'd like to take a poll. When will BM contact me for the first time after the RO expires? LOL Some of you might remember, when her and BF's RO expired last year (which stipulated that their contact could only be about SS), she emailed him the next day and said that she wanted to remind him that it was expired and started talking about how much she missed him and wanted him to come back home.
I have read in several post from yall that several have the week on week off schedule with the kids. We are trying for that with my ss. BM said it will only confuse him if it is that way and that it is way too much back and forth. SS is 7 will be 8 in Sept. currently we get one night a week and every other weekend. That means in a 2week period there is 6 back and forth trips as opposed to if we did get week at a time that would be one pick up from dad and one pick up from mom in a 2 week period. I would think she would see the good in this as it less she has to deal with us and vice versa.
I am so excited! BF bought a house and we are moving in about 4 weeks. The house needs a bit of work but between BF and I and a little help from the kids it will get done. We are only moving 10 miles away but to a very small town (under 800 people). This sweet little town has its own school K-12, so all my kids will be in the same building. The bonus for me is that I will no longer have to drive kids to school. I have been doing it for almost 12 years and the last few years have been a pain with 3 kids in 3 different schools in 2 neighboring cities.
SS11 has been playing baseball and BD10 also. I have been running the both of them to practice, to games 6 days a week. The season ended last week. To get to the point, SS11 was made to quit baseball a few weeks ago because of his behavior at school.(this was my suggestion because he was on this 3rd ISS.) Well his coach calls last week and asks if he could play in the tournament. DH says yes. So here I am running him around for practice Tues @ 7:00 Today @ 5:30.
Yesterday, I got a package from my MIL, my B-day is next week. So she sent me a really nice gift and card...(we have a great relationship) anyway, there were 2 cards from skids in the box. They must have gotten them w/ her last month when they saw her. One one hand it was nice that they did that, but on the other, I hope they did it because they wanted to on their own, not because my MIL made them, or asked them to. I know that they can't just do it when they are at home w/ BM.....god forbid!! But I don't want them to feel that they have to either.
Stupid question right?
DH and I have no problems except that he is really lazy, he does no work around the house, no cleaning no dishes and no laundry. And when i ask him to lift a finger he gets mad....
His excuse is because when its summer he mows and does outside work, ummm that what 3-4 months a YEAR, what about the other 7-8 ?? I tried to help him mow and he bitched about the way i do it so i quit!
Had to change name to suite my mood, Ursula was a good one, but it suits BM more than it does me.( in the "looks" dept. as well) I really don't mind being a witch, now if I can just get that nose wiggle down pat........
I'm jealous and I'm insecure today.
I'd like to say I'm not sure why....but I DO know why. I just don't know how to shake it.
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