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Yesterday, I got a package from my MIL, my B-day is next week. So she sent me a really nice gift and card...(we have a great relationship) anyway, there were 2 cards from skids in the box. They must have gotten them w/ her last month when they saw her. One one hand it was nice that they did that, but on the other, I hope they did it because they wanted to on their own, not because my MIL made them, or asked them to. I know that they can't just do it when they are at home w/ BM.....god forbid!! But I don't want them to feel that they have to either.
Stupid question right?
DH and I have no problems except that he is really lazy, he does no work around the house, no cleaning no dishes and no laundry. And when i ask him to lift a finger he gets mad....
His excuse is because when its summer he mows and does outside work, ummm that what 3-4 months a YEAR, what about the other 7-8 ?? I tried to help him mow and he bitched about the way i do it so i quit!
Had to change name to suite my mood, Ursula was a good one, but it suits BM more than it does me.( in the "looks" dept. as well) I really don't mind being a witch, now if I can just get that nose wiggle down pat........
I'm jealous and I'm insecure today.
I'd like to say I'm not sure why....but I DO know why. I just don't know how to shake it.
are there many of you that have to send the child support to the state? My H got letter from state saying he is now ordered to send his payment to state from here on out and anything given to BM after this point would be considered a gift. So our attorney calls the child support office to see why we now have to send to state and come to find out BM is getting some type of state aid and that is why. I am new to site and you may not know that we have filed a petition to modify the custody and child suppot.
The "sea witch", is perfect for me..good name change, skids would love it!!
so DH gets a court hearing notice in the mail..
So this weekend I hear a very disrespectful message on our answering machine from the pothead alcoholic SS21. It was aimed at me, of course. I immediately replayed the message for DH (who agreed that it was disrespectful) and said, "This is exactly that kind of crap I am sick of dealing with. So you deal with it."
Mind you, I haven't even spoken with SS21 or seen him since last August.
so we went to court today so we could hear what the GAL found out about the whole situation. first off, he said there are no issues...nothing is going on, SD is fine. then we find out that he costs $1000 and my BF has to pay $750 of that...we dont have this kind of money, dont know where we are going to get the money. so it cost us $750 to hear in court that BM is a liar...WOW THANKS. we couldve said that and it wouldnt have cost us a thing. then they started ironing out visitation. first the GAL wanted Bf to have SD every saturday...nice eh?
So, we get the two SD's that live out of state. The 8 yo comes with a pre-paid cell that she is insisting on calling her mom because "we never let her call her" well, she has never asked before and we get them very little - when she wants to call she does and when the bitch calls she talks to her. Everytime this happens she gets off the phone upset.
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