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You guys please help I don't know what to do. I have had many arguments with my FH about his ex and things have been great the past few mths since he supposedly set boundaries back in March. Well I have today off and got on the computer and his cell phone bill from last night was still up and I opened it because he told me he got his parents a phone a few mths back so I figured (really that is all i was looking for) I should write down the number since he has all my families phone numbers and I have none of his.
My husbands ex was a nut case once when we went to pick up skids my bioson came with us.When we pulled into the parking lot the kids got out of her car and my son was in the back seat with his window down she got out of her car walked over to my sons window and told him that his mother is a slut.Well i got out of the car cause when it comes to my son i dont care who you are you dont speak to him that way i told her to get the f away from my son and then she atarted to phisically hit me in front of all the kids they were screaming for her to stop my husband had to get her off of me.That is j
Another person's blog got me thinking about this, and I'd like some opinions. Some of you may remember me saying that DH's son abruptly moved out in the middle of April. The kid hasn't been seen since then. DH barely talks to him and is very adamant that the kid won't ever come back to visit. When the kid left, his room was atrocious, and it still is. There are dirty glasses and dishes in there which are now growing mold. His overflowing garbage can hasn't been emptied. His hamper is full of musty, dirty clothes.
I need opinions on just when is it OK to speak up about what goes on at the other parent's house? I know the rule of what goes on at our house stays at our house and vice versa but what if it is or could have a lasting effect on the children? Is it OK to ask the kids how things are going at the other house?
I am still here for the 2nd day now supposed to wait around until ss decides to call to pick him up.My husband asked me this morning before he left for work what i was doing today i said waitinf for a phonecall AGAIN....He didnt say anything about it.He was suppose to phone me back yesterday and come home but he never phoned back.So i went out to run some errands for ss he was supposed to pick up report card from school that he knew about but didnt think was important obviosly.This happens often and last time i asked husband to speak to his kids and let them know that it is disrespectful fo
personal items from a previous marriage after you remarry? For example: ring, dress, pictures etc? Have any of you kept any items for your kids from a previous marriage? Dh kept wedding band for skids. I got rid of everything that I had. I didn't want a reminder for me or my new DH. My kids know their dad and I love them. New life, new beginning. To me it was insulting that he would think so much of their marriage to even keep his ring.
I had to change my screen name, b/c as someone posted, you can go to google and read your posts......not good, so I am now Sia, in honor of my cat "Sia" who was Siamese (hence the name Sia). I had to have her put to sleep last Friday, I miss her so..... 
I had all my resolve up to talk to him tonight. I've been waiting for him to come home. He's in construction and gone all week, but coming home early b/c of holiday on Fri. I finally get ahold of him on his cell phone only to find out he and his buddies have been drinking on the car ride home for 3 hours and he's drunk! So much for the talk I wanted to have tonight. I am just so frustrated right now, I want to scream!!!! I just had to get this off my chest before it explodes.
I've finally decided to talk to BF and tell him that I am going to emotionally distance myself from his children AND if he can't stand up to BM and all of her bs, as well as his manipulative child (SD16), I am leaving. I need to have a voice in this house, too. He is coming home tonight from being on the road for three days and we are going to talk!!! I'm tired of sitting around here feeling a mess all the time b/c I'm not supposed to have any input on anything in his opinion. He's going to grow a set of you know what and take charge of his children and his ex or we are done.
I have been a stepmother for 4 years now doing all the driving with hubby to pick up and drop off stepkids.There is a set schedule that is only followed if they feel like it.My issue is my stepson 16 and son 12 live with us and sd 14 lives with mom when they are all together it is tough because i do all cooking cleaning plus take care of animals 2 dogs horse and a potbelly pig.I told my husband that having all 3 kids for a week plus driving them is to hard on me.He thought that i just didnt want hid daughter over but i feel like a maid as is and 1 more child for a week i dread.None of them
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