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ok so I havent vented very much lately mostly cuz FH had my original screen name and knew I posted. although I try to talk to him about things he is just so damn stubborn. So I come here to release and get good advice or just understanding.
Now the upset with SD16 has subsided (see I'm screwing up her life post) within minutes there is fresh drama with SD18. She got caught by a cop doing 55km/h in a 40km/h zone... looks like she might lose her license and have a $400 dollar fine...
She is really upset on the phone to her dad in tears. I feel sorry for her its a hard lesson to learn. At least she didn't crash or run someone over.
I can't write about this on my Myspace because some of my coworkers (and my boss) have access to that and this situation is kind of hush-hush. So anyway. When I was working full time at the doctor's office, I was in the surgical coordinator position which I shared with another woman. In October of last year, I told my boss that I was going to school this summer, so I would be going to part time and would be gone for good in the summer. They had pleeeenty of notice if you ask me (not many people give an eighth month notice)!
I am really worried about SD16. Her dad was having a talk with her last night (not something that happens very often) and she said she was really unhappy. She is still bitter about the break-up between her father and BM and basically having me here is just adding insult to injury. Her father doesn't want me to go but I think he should put the needs and wellbeing of his daughter above what we want. I can't bear screwing her life up and I wish I could just drop off the face of the planet.
FACTS:
BF/BM separated January last year.
I moved in February this year.
DH gets a plane ticket and wastes leave time for this dirt bag?? AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The court didnt do a damn thing for DH. He waited all day and then they told him that he should pay more.. there is no way thats possible because it was SUPPOSED to be lowered like a year ago and it never was.. supposedly D.O.R didnt get the court order. DH said that he wouldnt comply with any of it.. every time he made a point.. the judge ignored him. Sooooo.. now, they have a hearing date in Aug. DH is gonna try her I think in July in a different county.
So CPS went to BM's house today and BM put on a total act. BM acted like a completely different mom. It was aggravating. And they set up an appointment for BF and I tomorrow morning. So to the advice part, I want to know if anyone has any pointers on what to do. Should we expose BM's lies if they ask? Will they ask? What are they looking for? Will their inspection come up in court? Is it likely that they saw through BM's lies? Oh and just in case you were wondering all this CPS stuff came about because BM left SD2 in an apartment alone (what a great mom).
Anyone have any advice or anything that might be helpful in our case?
Okay, my friend Liz has had a bad bunch of luck lately. She missed getting the job of her dreams by making a mistake on an entrance exam, her mother died, and she got pnemonia and was feeling pretty shitty. All within 2 weeks. I called her today to see how she was and she said....
Well my SD turned 18 and went out and got her nose pierced. My BS has a tattoo that he got when he turned 18 and my SS and SD want to get one as well. My H hates tattoos and piercings. He doesn't know about the nose earring yet but will find out when he gets home from work today. I warned him last night she might come home with one and he said he guesses that's better than the tattoo because she can at least remove it. I asked her if she got a tattoo as well and she said no, so we will see. My ex has a tattoo and so my son thought it was ok for him to get one as well.
Did I mention how, because of the crazy bm we have the skids THIS weekend as well as last weekend?? no? sorry.
Ha.. we were not suppose to have them last weekend (a LOOONNNNGGG
WEEKEND) but had them because the weekend before that the BM wanted to keep them.
What does all this mean?! I just got rid of them on Monday evening.. and we will be picking them up again on Saturday am. I do need a break.. and I am not getting it.