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I get so tired of having to deal with what seems to be constant bullsh*t that in some way involves the BM. This is just the last couple of days…
Well the sh*t is about to hit the fan with the SD19 and I. Last Thursday night I came home from work after a 14 hr day.( I work 2 jobs) and as I walk into the house I hear her say "I need a flag". So stupid me I ask "What do you need a flag for?" Then comes the bitchy voice telling me " I wasn't talking to YOU!", ok so I say "excuse me" and with the same attitude I get back "you're excused" Ok I know I asked for it didn't I? )*(&#$)(*
I put my stuff down, went up to our bedroom, closed the door and waited until she left the house.
SD16 is in a lengthy sulk. She wasn't allowed to stay over night at her boyfriend's last night and had a huge hissy fit. It is still going on now. I just came on here to vent. She stayed out the night before. She is only allowed to stay out one night a week. Which is more than most kids would be allowed. I reckon the day after the night out she should go to her BMs. I am fed up with her crabby and miserable mood from having no sleep / possibly a hangover.
Ever since SS21 yelled FU! to DH over the phone, we've heard nothing from SS21. Probably because we shut off his cell phone, which we were paying for.
DH balked at first. How would SS21 call home? How would he call his PO? How would he hear back from employers? (SS21 recently got fired for yelling FU! to his boss). Then I said, "How would he call his dad and tell him to FU?" I swear, DH must think SS21 is a bonafide RETARD. No, he's just a lazy, entitled, under-educated, addict-alcoholic.
I am very angry and disappointed in Sd16 today. It was my BS (her 1/2 brother) party today for his tenth birthday. He asked me if we could invite SD, I reluctantly said OK, it is after all, his party, not mine. DH calls her two days ago and asks that she come. She said she would be there and was looking forward to seeing her brothers. NO SHOW / NO CALL. After the party was over, and all the guests had gone, DH called her to ask why she didn't show up. It was about 4 pm by this time (party was at noon). She was still in bed!!!! UGHHHHH.
Things over all have been going very well. My DH , and I have regained peace, and control over our lives. The last time we heard from BM was the drunk phone call that we did not answer weeks ago, but , she is still a big topic of conversation. Sometimes, this can be my fault. When I hear "the stories" about things related to her, I can make some pretty nasty comments, or better still, make relentless fun of some of the situations she put my poor DH in. I NEED TO NOT DO THIS! I know, but sometimes it's so hard!
FH is thinking about contacting CPS about BM...FSS showed up here with no clean clothes, cheap flip flops, and filthy. He then goes on to tell us that his mom lets him go outside WITHOUT her to ride his bike. They live on the 2nd floor of an apartment building and she claims to watch him from the window...now from MY experience with CPS I was told you cannot leave a 5 year old outside UNATTENDED and watch them from the window...you just wouldn't have time to get to them if someone snatched them up. I'm wondering if CPS will think he's just reporting her out of revenge...
HAHHAHAHA!! IT WAS GREAT!
The school art show was this week. It wasn’t as bad as last year. Although I think I’ve mellowed. I feel sad for FH. Yet again BM collected all the boys art pieces and didn’t offer any of their artwork to FH. And yet again the boys ignored us.
I feel it would be easier on the boys if BM would at least acknowledge us by saying ‘hello’ – her ignoring FH sets the tone for the boys.
I am not dreading the fact that SS is coming I am happy to see him. I am dreading seeing him walk in on his bottom lip. See BM calls H at 6:30 this morning to very rudely inform him that she will be dropping SS off tonight. She is so hateful all the time. Well very few and far btw are the times that she drops SS off. H usually does all the transportation. Anyway whenever she does bring SS she grills him the whole way over here about coming and how awful we are etc. essentially make SS feel bad for coming and dreading the situation cause of how his mom will act.