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I was supposed to pick up sd today but she has plans to go shopping with her grandmother.So she wants to know if i can pick her up tomorrow.After trying to get a hold of her for 2 days to tell her i am picking her up today.I dont have the time next week to drive her back home which takes 1.5 hours.So now her visit will be cut short.It always has to be convenient for them never taking into consideration i may have things to do.
We've got to go to court today for SD's fit back in May. I don't know why but I'm nervous. I know nothing is going to happen to me. SD12 was upset about it yesterday. She kept saying I've been good for the past four days. Yeah well four days don't make up for three months. DH talked with BM two days ago and she's pissed that I'm still going through with it. BM said we are doing it to punish her... umm ok... I think she's fishing for excuses and reasons not to come get the girls today. I won't be surprised if she doesn't show up.
Wow! I have really come to feel like you are all my friends. I have noticed that when someone posts about their hurt, disapointment and pain that I feel little twinges of pain for them. When I have a problem or need advice I may get a lot of responses or maybe just a few, but I always feel better when someone says "I feel your pain". Thank you all for that.
I know the drill... most days I'm ok and focus on the positive. But damn, I'm drinking all of Colorado Girl's wine tonight 
I've just had it! Custodial Stepmotherhood really does suck sometimes.
Well i sat down and spoke to my husband last night because i was just getting overwhelmed with the feelings i have towards our family.If you read my past posts those are the things i laid on the table and told him that he has no respect for me just as much as the kids.He lets them get away with everything they do to me and expects for me to speak up.As his wife he should't allow for these things to go on.So i told him last night that i have resentment building up towards our family.He did not say anything i even asked him if there was something he wanted to say and he said no.Its almost as
Ok with me and my husband got married I knew that he had 2 boys. Well there fighting is getting out of hand and also found out that thoes boys are probly not evens his He has know this from day one. Well now that I know this I don't even want them to take care of them and all their fighting!!
I need some advice on what i should do about my own bm and I. I've gotten mixed feeling towards this and you all are so helpful i figured i would explain everything to all of you..
a little background..
I asked my husband that question today. He was puzzled...
In all this madness - do I make you happy?
"Yes" was his simple reply.
I am now focused on my own custody battle that is costing "our" family thousands of dollars. So I'm now in his shoes. Totally different circumstances but parallelling no less. Dealing with an uncooperative ex who is not paying child support and has ensued an unjust custody arrangement.
I really can begin to know how he has felt.
Warning: the contents below contains extreme whining and complaining.
So, he brings to the table a psycho ex-wife, one decent son, one complete little sh** son, the emotional baggage that comes with 12 years of marriage to the psycho, the financial ruin that comes with 12 years of marriage to the psycho and an upcoming legal battle to try to get custody of the decent son.
This summer BM finally decided that doing an every other week schedule with SD 7 was the proper thing to do. I hate to say I told ya so but....THAT WAS MY IDEA LAST YEAR! But BM said, 'no thats too often of a switch.' And every weekend isn't...? But whatever. So we get SD every other week and we've had her twice so far. I believe it works out so she spends equal time both here and there.
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