Freaking out need reassurance
Long story short. My current husband continues to have a volatile relationship with his ex. We really try our best to get along with her, but it keeps getting thrown back in our face.
She is irresponsible when it comes to the kids and their schoolwork. He sent her a text today asking her to help encourage their son to be responsible about a specific item. She got angry and bit back that he was abusing her.
Later, we caught her in a major lie concerning the kids and leaving the country. He called her on it. That's all. This was all via text. Next thing we know we get a call from her sister saying she's calling the police on him because he was abusing her. Basically for the 2 things listed above.
She then later communicated to my husband that they had someone "looking into his texts" and that he was being abusive. All he was doing was trying to encourage her to take a more proactive part in managing the school and does continue to try and get her to be honest when it comes to their children. No insults, threats or angry words were exchanged.....
But....from experience is there really anything they could do to him? The court systems aren't exactly fair and they tend to favor the mom so we are a bit gun shy there...
Any advice/similar experiences would be appreciated.