For a while now I wondered why my husband did not stand up to my s-childrens mom. I finally see why. Apparently if he waits, he will get what he wants anyway.
For example. When he and I started dating, she wanted for me not to meet the children. He said fine. What ended up happening is she was to pick up the kids before our date and she was a few hours late. So, I met the kids.

I had major "fall-out" of my hair yesterday, had this happen before, but it was due to the meds. I was on, (depression/anxiety) I stopped all meds. a while ago, and stopped counseling over the summer, was not "jellin" with the counselor to well, so got discoraged. My hair is pretty short, due to the last episode......today, it looks like absolute hell. I don't want to get into detail on what it looks like, alot came out yesterday in the back mostly.

Ok so me my son and BF go to my moms house sunday to watch the dolphin game and to eat. We are sitting down just talking and watching the game when there is a knock at the door. My sister says come in and it is my EX. Now this is someone that has spit in my face and called me every name in the book. but my mother and step dad and sister let him visit still. Anyway after he came in he went up to my BF shook his hand and introduced hiself and went and greeted my mother and sister and just said hey to me from far. I said NOTHING back.

BF and I have been together for 4 years now. BM has never had a full on relationship with anyone since BF and her split (only afew blow ins) until now.
She is with someone who she has just introduced to the skids (last Tuesday), she is talking about wanting to get married, settling down with someone etc... (she told the skids this). Anyway none of this bothers me in fact I'm happy about it cause that just means she wont be trying to cause trouble for us as much anymore (she always settles down alittle when someone new is in her life).