Woohooo
Ok so SD came over on monday and told BF that she had some big news to tell him but she wanted to wait until today to tell him. Welllll She spoke to him on the phone a little while ago and mentioned the big news. So he said he could not wait so for her to please tell him. She told him that BM is pregnant!!!! I feel so good to know this but I feel that BF is bothered by it. BM made him wait 5 years to get pregnant. and they have only been seperated 15 months. Is it wrong for me to feel good about this?
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Celebrate away, girfriend!
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
Nothin wrong about it!!
Are they separated or divorced?
Does she have a "significant other" and how long was he with BM?
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."-Eleanor Roosevelt
From what we know there is
From what we know there is no significant other. and he was with her for 15 years.
I thought they were apart longer
Wow, 15 months isn't a long time to be separated; I'm
just talking from experience.
If he is NOT divorced, PLEASE PLEASE take your time in this relationship. If she got pregnant just by
"anyone", maybe to piss him off, you have some serious wacko issues to deal with here. SHE might not be over HIM and may still have some kind of
emotional hold over him.
You're very wise to have an uneasy feeling. It's
definitely telling you to TAKE YOUR TIME with this
situation!
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."-Eleanor Roosevelt
He is divorced but im not
He is divorced but im not planning on having any kids. I know shes probably doing it on purpose. I have been dealing with whacko issues already this is just another chapter. But this one makes me HAPPY. Hopefully now she will stop with her dumb bullshit and leave us the hell alone.
Are you kidding?
Pregnancy only makes a wacky BM that much wackier. Trust me, we've got one. Bout to squeeze out her next demon spawn in a week or two.
She's no less crazy and manipulative than she ever was, she's just more apt to go the excessive sobbing route with the kids. It's pathetic and makes me wanna puke just thinking about it.
And with no significant other - who do you think will be the target for all of the "aw, poor me" and the hormonal wackiness????
I'd say if you have a BM with a potential for violence, pregnancy might put a hitch in her get along, but as for stupid bullsh*t - pregnancy hasn't seemed to slow our BM down one bit.
It's okay that it makes you
It's okay that it makes you happy to think that maybe now she will leave you guys alone but I would be keeping my eyes wide open, especially since it's so soon after the divorce and god knows who the father is.
Has your BF spoken to you about it yet on how this makes him feel?
Yeah he spoke to me he said
Yeah he spoke to me he said it doesnt bother him and that he is glad that its not from him. I told him that i remember one time when I spoke to BM she said to me that she didnt want to be with anyone because she didnt want to confuse SD more than she already is... now when i look at it how confused does she think SD is gonna be now looking at her mother that just got pregnant from a man that is just her friend. And SD was 8 when BM and my BF split and now she is 9 so there isnt really much of a difference. SD told me that when her mother told her that she started crying because it wasnt from her dad its from a man that she doesnt even know. But BM and BM's sisters painted a pretty picture for SD and told her how she will be a big sister and be able to do things for the baby.. I actually felt bad for SD but I explained to her that eventually being that her mother and dad are split that she will have sisters and brothers from different dad or mom.... But its not happening with me cause I do not want anymore kids but I didnt tell her that. I have my 1 boy that is 9 and I am happy with that. Should I have explained to her in a better way? Im not sure I tried to do what i can.