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mediocrityrulesman's picture

Yesterday was horrible. I had let myself slip so far behind in school and I was LOADED with assignments, so I started them early on in the day, took a break and came back to them later on. I was getting extremely frustrated (I still am) with Algebra. I wasn't understanding why I excelled at it in high school but not now, in college. amongst all the frustration of my homework, crying babies, and anxiety, I was dreading the next day (today).

To send, or NOT to send... Christmas gifts to bf's ex-wife's 2yr old with new husband???

Hopeful378's picture

BACKGROUND:
I met my fantastic boyfriend earlier this year and we've been dating since. My boyfriend unfortunately has a psycho ex-wife. She divorced my boyfriend over 4 years ago, for a guy she was having an affair with.

well so much for wishing for a peaceful xmas

acep74's picture

Hi All
We are all settled into our home , but on the first day got some news that the sd 16 was back down with her mother, then a day later the 3rd party took the claim out for cs for her but still requested back pay of $500. Then a day later the bm puts back in a claim for sd 16 so she is apprently back with her mother, they want alot of money a month for both girls, they dont care that hubby has to support us... Sad

I don't wanna go to jail but....

losingmymind's picture

I was wondering if any of you have contacted your DH's ex wife's husbands ex wife? Follow?
If you needed to know something vital that you suspected was trying to be hidden from you would you contact? What would you say if you did and what if the ex wife and the new wife are "friendly"? Don't know how they could be with BM but you never do know...

Where does the love go?

Colorado Girl's picture

I am reading the Twilight series.

I have regressed back into a love sick teenager.(Those of you on MySpace have witnessed my ridiculous obsession) Twilight is a young love story that revolves around an undying devotion between two teenagers. (Don't ask what's wrong with me because I just can't help myself)

My point behind all of this?

Oh yes CHRISTMAS

nicole's picture

Well FH informed me today that he is giving EX step kids 200 bucks for Christmas..a piece.....He told me he has to give at least as much has their other parents are giving...Like its a freakin competition...I was FURIOUS>>> its not happening...Thats a little much...and i dont care how much the other step, bio parnets are giving...He already pays their phone bills and the are 20 and 23...I usually love christmas...Not this year.....Ba humbug....

Christmas Card Search

TheBrightSide's picture

I went to pick out Christmas Cards for my DH and SD8.

Found a "For Husband" Christmas card. Found two "from the dog" Christmas Cards...do you think I could find a "For My Stepdaughter" Christmas Card....nope. They had every possible ridiculous combination..."for daughter and her husband", "for teacher from child"....etc. etc.

You would think...THINK...that considering about 33% of children in North America are in blended families that Hallmark would make a friggen Christmas card commemorating that fact.

aahh tiz the season FSS appears

sarahbernheart's picture

well guess what..we got a call from FSS ...he passed his GED but still doesnt have a job and still mooching off everyone BUT US!!!
wanted to give his xmas gift list oh and to be sure to get a ride to Xmas eve at FMIL house.
wow why am I not suprised to have heard from him.
Christmas just brings them all home doesnt it.
My Xmas eve will be intersting.
and I am SURE he will want to spend the night on Tuesday...
gawd sometimes I hate my life.
thanks for letting me vent

Proof men are not as territorial as women!

melis070179's picture

So I've been with my DH for a little over 3 years. I split with my exH in 8/05 & met my DH in 11/05. I was still married when we met because our state you have to be legally separated for a year before getting divorced. So anyway, my exH and I STILL have a joint checking account. Apparently I am the only one this bothers. My ex & my DH see nothing wrong with it! I cannot remove myself from the account unless my ex signs.

Question for all!!!!

Itwillgetbetter's picture

Ok SD needs braces that will cost about $4500.00 to $6000.00. BF pays for the premium of the insurance he pays $545.00 of child support every month! And his insurance pays for $1500.00 towards the braces... Should he still pay some of the braces? or should BM pay for the difference? BM has been the biggest Beotch when it comes to the child support part.

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