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I decided to make this a seperate entry rather than a reply on another.
My recent approach has been to distance myself from the situation. DW says I am always negative about SD13 so I have backed off on some things. Many things Ive learned to not worry about.
I only assert myself in areas of importance, or occasionally when I cant take excessive amounts of smaller items.
EXAMPLE: Recently we went away for a week. SD is extremely moody. Apparently its that time of month. (This lasts 3 weeks a month I think)
Second blog in a day! But I couldn't wait to share! BF called and let me know that SS got all A's on his progress report! He's gotten all A's so far this year. We're going to take him out this evening to celebrate when we both get off work!
I'm so proud of him. He's worked so hard this year on his schoolwork and his reading skills. He's improved so much! Just wanted to share this with everyone!
for christmas..I have no idea what this kid is into besides the hating of me and her father, telling lies one after another like its her job. I have 5 kids to buy for at christmas my two children and fhs 3 children. All are easy to buy for but her as usual the difficult one. If any of you have an 11 yr old stepdaughter whos going on 25 I would love to know what you got/getting them for christmas. I was thinking coal but here in Va, I really cant find any and plus I dont think my FH would like that very much }:)
Speaking of parties, BM is having SS's birthday party a couple weeks early this year so he and his cousin can have a joint birthday party. I think it's a good idea since he and his cousin are so close, and they'll have a good time.
Just a minor rant. I feel this helps… Even if it isnt too interesting.
So every day, I take SD13 to school on my way to work. She goes to Catholic school out of town so there is no bus. Its not too much out of my way and isnt that big of a deal.
It started the middle of October, SS6 was over for our regular weekend and he was all excited about his birthday party. BM told him that it would be at the local humane society. SS6 was thrilled, he loves animals.
November rolls around; the first week BM says the party will be the last Saturday of Nov. DH invites his parents.
The second week of Nov.; BM says the party will be the Wed. before Thanksgiving. DH lets his parents know and they can’t make it as they live 2 hours away from our town. DH can’t make it either as he has to work. I start getting suspicious.
Ok Sd came over the day before yesterday and I needed to leave the house I coudnt take it anymore. First BF was eating a chicken nugget and she wanted some so BF went to give it to her for her to hold it and SD didnt want it like that she wanted him to feed it to her... Then she goes to the kitchen and tells BF guess what mommy threw up this morning... That just made me sick to my stomach. This little girl listens to all adult conversations and brings back everything to our home. SD told her father that someone was pregnant and he asked her does she know who the baby daddy is??
So, while the BM is off vacationing in France, I am stuck with her responsibility of taking care of SD12. I have a 2 year old and a newborn and the BM is "taking a break" after 4 months of a "break" here at home. I've talked to my H about it, but he loves is daughter, so it's a sticky subject. The BM has always had a problem with alcohol, so my H is happy the daughter is here as to avoid contact with the BM. The BM is selfish and a liar. My SD is also selfish and fast turning into a liar.
I think that my SS BM is scared, she is the one who has fleas all over her house again and my 4 year old SS came home with 18 new bites, funny how 2 weeks ago she would not agree to shit in mediation however the same day the doctor say the bites were fleas she called my DH and wanted to talk about a deal, he told her to put it in writing and he would take it to his lawyer, she said the only thing the judge would have to decide is placement, well right now they have split custody and placement he goes back and forth every 3 days, I think she is getting scared and wants to assure split custod
Had I known for a megasecond just five years ago that THIS SITE
existed, I NEVER would have married my H.
I would have run like HELL!!
Like many of us state on this site, it is difficult to discuss
the "issues" with which we deal with family, friends. Many of
them have no experience with this....they want us to be HAPPY
and wish us well...and they hope all things work out. Others
are SICK of listening to the same thing over and over again,
but, again, having no experience, they have no advice to give us.
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