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The ex wife sticks around like glue

pixie1's picture

Can anyone help me??? I have a nightmare ex wife (my Husbands) that like many people on here never seems to leave us alone!!! My Husband and I have suffered so emotionally from this woman and it has reached an all time worst as my Husband has now has to tell his family that we no longer want to associate with them as long as they are friendly with her. This woman or "dog guts" as my Husband referes to her, has never been stable. when I first met my Husband 5 years ago she had decided to trade her daughters(my 2 sd's) in for more time with her boyfriend at the time.

SD13's Birthday party and I'm Not His Barbie Doll!

bewitched's picture

When my first marriage ended, a couple of friends (actually one was ex's former best friend), accused me of being a "trophy wife" to ex. C'mon, 2 kids and 17 yrs. of marriage, and I'm reduced to "trophy wife"...what a nothing is that.

Anyway, H called this morning, about SD13's Birthday Party, which I have decided to attend, briefly, for SD13.

The conversation went like this:

H: Oh, get SD13 a Visa Card, she'll like that.

More Tears of Pide and Joy

Rags's picture

My son (SS) left to return to boarding school on Sunday. He was home for 8 days over Thanksgiving and we had a great time.

Before he left we discussed his academic performance which is currently significantly improved over his performance the first two years of high school. He has been struggling with his advanced Alg class. He started after the first few weeks of this semester with a low F. We helped him set up plan to get extra help and to prioritize how he does his work so that he could work on getting his grade in Alg up.

I NEED ADVICE!!

Beach's picture

Ok, so my SD18 finally tells her father that she is getting married on 23 December. He tells me and I pretend to be surprised. However, he also tells me that he wants me to go to the wedding, which will be held locally, not in the city where her BM resides. Remember, about a month and a half ago I told SD18 off and I got a nasty call from her BM telling me that I couldn't possibly love her and say those things. The truth hurts I guess. So, NOW WHAT DO I DO!?! I really do not want to go because it would appear hypocritical, but DH asked me to.

Im going to try and explain this in the best way possible!!!

Itwillgetbetter's picture

Ok there is a baby shower coming up and Bf and I are invited. But so is BM! now we never go to anything that BM goes to she was with BF for 15 years and I feel like no matter what she will be family and I wont so if there was any drama i will not have anyone to back me up. Well anyway BM is trying to do some sneaky shit and she doesnt want me or BF to know that she is going to this baby shower. Sounds like she is trying to plan something. I dont like to make a scene cause i am not that type of person and I refuse to make a show or disrespect anyones party or anything.

should I?

northernsiren's picture

I'm thinking about Xmas this year, and SD14. As I mentioned in my past blog, due to BM being pregnant, we were informed 3 days before Thanksgiving that it was our responsibility to get SD to and from her football game (cheerleading) on thanksgiving day, despite the fact it is less than 2 miles from the BMs house, and she had no plans. Anyway, b/c of that, FH and I opted to make thanksgiving dinner at our home (we weren't going to) have SD over weds night, and then back to our house after the game instead of to BMs.

Got in a little hot water with the Bride this evening.

Rags's picture

My SS calls Tuesday and informs us that his last final exam is on Wed after next and he would like for us to rebook his flight to fly home on Thus rather than Fri from boarding school. The posted finals schedule is clear that the kids can leave after their last final and that Thus is make up day for any missed finals or rescheduled tests.

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