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It's downtime for them, downtime for him. He also informed me that he is not going to get after them, or tell them what to do when they are here. And he's mad because I asked SD17 about applying for scholarships. Mad because I complained about the whorish way she dresses when she comes here. Mad because I asked him to have her get up when she was laying on the couch, so I would be able to take a seat.
that my FH is still paying for his EX step daughter who is 20 years old cell phone bill...He tells me that she pays it...Well i get the bank statements and he pays it...THeir phone bill together was 518.00 dollars.....WTF
Ok so after 2 hours of little lord fauntleroy and daddy arguing and getting NO WHERE AND I MEAN no where, step mommy dearest had enuf. I waltzed in (more like stormed) and told his lordship that I did not care what he thought or what he expected, we were done. He has not earned the right to anything in our home and that his dad and I were fed up with his attitude and until he could prove to us that he wanted to be at our house and be part of the family he was not welcomed. and get this...
So.. I am 19 weeks pregnant.. I work full time and I had signed up (prepregnancy) to work a part time job over the tax season preparing taxes. Well.. the Major Tax preparer place that I was going to work at is the most disorganized cluster F that I have ever seen. I mean.. They sent out the day before Thanksgiving the entire schedule for December of classes.. The classes started the MONDAY DIRECTLY AFTER Thanksgiving. (imagine if you went away for Tday.. you wouldnt have got the letter in time).. Any way..
BM calls H this morning and says that we need to have a talk with SS about school and friends and being overbearing.
BM said that she tried to talk to SS but he just doesn't get it. She said that SS says that so and so is a punk and he is not my friend and that guy is my friend. Then she says that the teacher says he is yelling out in class. So she wants H and I to talk to him this evening when we have him.
Background...A week after BM found out that BD was getting married she has been causing drama about every week. She can't help herself even after she filed a motion in court to get the 2 SS that live with us. She has had 2 families move in with her since Aug (not anyone in her family just friends) Doesn't abide by the guidelines at any time....She got married during a weekday and pulled the kids out early from school when she was told the time to pick them up. She had one of the SS call her and lie that she was going to pick them up when they had already been with her for over an hour.
For anyone who is not familiar with my story I am a BM to 3 children 2 from 1st marriage and 1 child to current DH. I have 2 SD from DH 1st marriage. We are no different to anyone else here suffering at the expense of DH ex wife. I had posted in my first blog that SD had not wanted to come over very often since new baby Brother was born. DH has become increasingly frustrated with this as we used to have them a week at a time before bub was born.
I just can't seem to let things go. SS12 and SD9 come home after the weekend with their precious mother. SS12 informs me and HB that we need to make him a eye doc appointment and his mommy dearest will pay for it. I say to SS well, why doesn't your mom make the appointment and take you, afterall she is your mom. He gets pissed at me and says I don't know. Who does BM think she is trying to order us around through SS? I left it at that. Then today, BM pulls in the drive during dinner and skids leave their plates and run outside. I'm like WTF!!!! I had no idea she was stopping by.
Just got off the phone with DH (thanks again, 5teens). He had asked me earlier today if I new when my son is coming for Christmas-I'm not sure, but I think Christmas Eve.
So I asked him about the sd's. Oh, he said, they would be here Christmas Day. Then he said his mom would like to come too.
Ok. That's all fine, right? His mom is 30 miles away in a nursing home, his daughters are 30 miles away in another direction.
So, tonite he tells me he would like his mother to stay the nite. And his daughters! WTF!!!
I spoke to FH and he said that onece we are married all the insurance will change...He had the chance to change it yesterday, but did not...We live together and it sort of hurts to know that he could care less what happens to me in the case God forbide something happen to him...But his ex step children will sure be taken care of...He always turns it around asn makes it my fault somehow...Like all i want to do is fight...And thats far from the truth...It just hurts that im not important..I forget that i have no place with him...