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Not only is he going to his ex step childrens graduation...he has put them on his insurance as the beneficiaries.....If any of you have been following my drama let me know what you think
Well I haven't been in here for quite a while, can't really say why just haven't felt like typing up the depressing aspects of my life with the SS but things have certainly changed for the better as far as I'm concerned.
Ok so where to begin. FSS had been MIA for a few days before Thanksgiving, this is still AFTER the inital talk about him taking on some responsibility and to help around the house when he decides to grace us with his presence. IE> if he wants to do laundry he needs to call plus he will need to help around the house in order to have the privelge of washing his clothes.
i am not into this fulltime parent status sh#$#%$$. i had decided after last relationship i would not be with someone whose kids live with them have been honest about that but noqw my partner wants son to live with us. WAIT!!!!!! not wanting this
DW and I had a counseling session today and I now feel less hope than ever. Without dropping bombs about SDs bad behavior the session did stay focused on the two of us. We have no real relationship with each other as a couple. There is no US. Counselor asked what I wanted and I said I want her to let me back in emotionally. She has pretty much shut me out. I said I didn’t think she realized she has shut me out so completely. She then admitted that yes she has and she knows it. Hi, welcome to the party, thanks got joining us!
BM sends a picture with SD yesterday. One that she took at a sweet sixteen and BM wrote at the bottom of the picture Love (SD's NAME) and Love (BM's Name) should I take this as BM is trying to be a funny bitch or piss me off??? I mean why the hell would anyone want to love her? It was only a picture of SD, BM was not in it. maybe if she was in it i could try and understand the love part. But WTF????
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the stupid case officer deciding on the 3p's assessment declined hubby on a reducement! But here is the great bit she forgot totally to add that she decided on the max payment for the sd with bm.... so we cant pay the same amount again for 3p... we justified this with all our expenses .... I'm so god damn annoyed,.
I have an interview in the morning for a job I think I would like to have. The pay is not wonderful but in this economy who's is but it had benefits, is full-time and is local with no weekends. I had another interview last week and that job was not for me.
So please send me your good thoughts and prayers. I want this job and I am sick of being at home.
Well today my DH's ex called him to try and discuss a deal with custody. Court is next week and she said if my DH agress to send her the agreement and not to her lawyer becuase her lawyer did not want her to do the agreement. The agreement is they still go every three days and then every other weekend, she would get SS wed. to Fri. and DH would get him Sun. to Tues. then they would switch every other Sat. except on her Sat. we dont pick him up until 6pm Sun. and on our Sat. we get him at 9am. But BM will not agree on placement she still wants to go to court for that.
Well he has been here now for 9 months. Turned his grades from failing to all A's and B's. Hygene is getting better but I am to guess that all teenage boys go through this until a girl says "you stink". There have been a lot of ups and downs but in the big picture if it gives him a better shot at life we have to take what we were given and make the best out of it. BM HOWEVER ... continues to make our life hell as she provides no boundries when he visits her.