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Said my piece

alwaysthemom's picture

In a previous post I vented about BM showing up at MY house unannounced. The last time was the last straw. Well, the b*tch did it again tonight. Even though BM and skids were told they needed to OK BMs unscheduled arrivals with me or DH they did not. Skids think they can just call BM over whenever they feel necessary. It doesn't work that way. I called her after she left and told her if she ever shows up at my house again without OK from me or DH, I will have her arrested for tresspassing. I mean what I say and say what I mean.

New to the group. Railroaded from the start.

kayjay117's picture

I'm new to the group. I’ve been lurking but I’ve finally decided to post. Sorry, it’s kind of long. My DH and I married 8/1/08. I have a nine year old son. I uprooted our entire lives, put my house up for sale and moved across town. DH wouldn’t consider moving because his two sons (14 &16) didn’t want to change schools. I agreed to move under the condition that we try to sale his house as soon as mine sold in order to purchase “OUR” house. He went back on his word when my house sold in September and I feel trapped.

Tell me what you think

nicole's picture

FH got a dentist bill in the mail...I open it and it is for his ex wife of 5 years...Has is name and my address, but shows work that her and 20 year old daughter had done...Now why would he be getting this bill...This is his ex wife and ex step daughters bill...He says that he ran into a friend that works at the office and gave them his new address for an invitatin to a 50th wedding anniversary party they where throwing..The friend is a secretary at the dentist office...Remind you he hasnt bee to the dentist in the year he has been at my house, but did get a reminder at my address a couple

Surprise Surprise

christine77's picture

Well SD13 got her blackberry curve last night. And I came close to losing it, I was saying things out loud, I brought a lot of tension to the house last night and I DONT EVEN CARE!!! Im tired of sitting back and not saying anything, being careful as not to offend anyone. Im so sick of "waiting til later", you know what? If SD13 is treated like shes an adult well then she can listen in and take it like an adult. I DONT CARE ANYMORE. I want SD's to know just how others look at them, im DONE tip-toeing around trying not to hurt anyones feelings. THEY CAN ALL HEAR ME.

Terrified

frustratedinMA's picture

Ok.. so as you all know, I am pregnant. I am now in my 24th week, and will be 25 weeks this coming Sunday. That said, we still have not told the skids. I have successfully managed to hide the stomach under over-sized and baggy clothing.

For those that forgot why we hadn't told them yet, I was afraid their bm would ruin the holidays if she knew sooner. (let face it.. she lost it over me getting a new car w/my salary.. I can only imagine what this will do to her)..

Family agreement

northernsiren's picture

Well, this may be putting the cart before the horse to some degree, but FH and I have spent so much time in the last few weeks talking about SDstb15 coming and living with us, I felt the need to draft a document outlining the commitments, rules, and guidelines we would like to set in place for the new full time family. We go to the lawyer's office Sat, and proceedings begin. BM does not have the financial wherewithall to fight this, so we hope it will be a relatively smooth transition, though she is going to blow a gasket when she gets served.

Just doesnt sound fair!!!!!!!!!!!

sunshine's picture

Okay well as most of you know I have a BD15 and SD15 (well 15 1/2). which means they will be driving soon... toooo sooooon. (SD15 is going to be driving one of DH's cars)

My BD's father passed away in 2001 and she draws a check every month that I have been able to put away and build her a very nice savings for college,,, car whatever...

I think my DH is jealous that I have or my BD15 has this money to fall on if we need too.

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