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Well, we are two weeks out from out battle in court. BM is taking husband to court for custody, visitation and child support. Mind you, she put SD in counseling to say and prove that we were abusing her. It back fired and the counselors report and notes state SD feels loved warm and comfortable here with us, no signs of abusive of any type, that counselor had to repeatedly tell mother no abuse, that mother’s actions cause a state of mental confusion for child and that mother stated to counselor she did this to not have to drive to VA for visitation exchanges.
Everytime I think it has reached its lowest point, I seem to keep sinking lower and feeling sadder.
BF got a text message from BM this morning that said: "SS NEEDS MONEY FOR HIS TRIP". She has never texted him before - usually she will call or email if she needs something. BF answered back that neither BM nor SS mentioned anything to him this weekend about a trip or needing money for it. He asked her when the trip was and where it was to. No reply thus far.
I think that BF should say if he is paying for this trip, then HE should get to chaperone SS instead of BM. She always goes on school trips and extracurricular functions with SS which means that BF never gets to go.
Part two to yesterday's post where "Crap Hits the Fan". DH comes home with flowers as a peace offering from Saturday nights explosion. Looking sheepish "Gee Honey-don't know what I did wrong?? (UGHHHH)
Part one of Indulging Daddykins Make Over was to explode (That kind of worked) but I as I started to calm down-I started to think of some rational responses to the seemingly unconscious pampering of the teen man/child-so stay tuned as I go through the week.
The one that I HATED the most was in a hosiery mill. The department I was in made house slippers for hospitals.The kind with rubber soles. The rubber for the soles was melted and formed right there and about a dozen of us had to take razor sharp scissors and trim the rubber off each slipper and then match them. We had to do around 100 pairs an hour to make production. Keep in mind these were 12 hr shifts, in NC, in July with no ac. To this day I can't wear house shoes, I wear thongs.
I have a myspace account and I have worked min wage jobs. As a single mother I worked any job I could get to support my family. Right now in this economy there are plenty of educated, professional people who would be grateful for any type of employment. It saddens and disgusts me that there are people who think they are better than the cashier at the grocery store or the waitress that takes their order at a restaurant.
BM is pushing the issue of SS14 and SS13 to loose weight. SS14 is involved in sports but SS13 is not.
BM has fed the kids carbs since they left the womb and wonder why they are fat! She hasn't cared about their weight until AFTER she filed for custody.
The kids have been at her house for 10 days for Spring Break. She fed them this week Romen noodles, hot dogs and pizza.
one of my diamond necklaces for her 18th birthday!
Here's a new one. A couple of months ago, I mentioned to H that I had a diamond necklace from a previous relationship that I never wear. It's not super expensive, but nice. And I told him we could give it to SD17 for her birthday. This is when I was still trying to have a relationship with her.
If I don't get this off my chest I will never get any sleep and I have an exam and two presentations tomorrow, not to mention a 14 hour day ahead of me.
Waht do you want from us BM? Is it that you really want SD to have a relationship with DH or do you just want us to pay you as much money as possible so that you can make your new husband SD's "daddy" now? Do you want DH to just sign over custody? Would that make you go away?
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