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H came home for a long weekend (he had 5 days off) and announced we were going to build a fence. This would be because H's boss objected to H having his dog at the apartment, and I told him the dog cannot stay here while I'm at work because he poos and pees in the house. So, we are building a fence.
Friday morning before going to work I helped measure for it. Then went to work. H went and played cards, but did have the post holes dug by the time I got home.
ss is 4 and did not want to play tball yesterday because he wanted to go to his moms and play video games?! Bm the lazy fat azz that she is did nothing...i just dont get it, to me 4 yo is too young to be caring about video games, my children will NOT be playing video games at this age. im sorry but if the kid cant even count to 20, wtf is he doing sitting in front of a tv playing games?
I know that i come from a very strict type of family where education is most important, so my views might be off, i was curious what your thought are!
HAHA..I can't fault the kid for trying..his newest line is "I have a good idea Kaff"..than he will proceed to tell me what he wants - a new toy..to play outside..etc.." isn't that a good idea? he'll say to me..
HAHA! usually I'll just "that's a great idea..but it's not happening"
Poor kid. HAHA.
The hard part it's summer and he is still in school..9pm and it's just getting dark..he wants to go outside and play cuz' he doesn't realize it's nighttime.So lately his good idea is "it's a good idea if I go outside and play on swing while you watch me , RIGHT? "
LOL
MY SS did comparatively well this past school years academically. However, he struggles with writing structured papers and absolutely hates it. English was his lowest grade and he BARELY made the cut in that class.
I instructed him to find a Sylvan Center or a similar program and get himself signed up for a Writing class so that he can go back to school in the fall for his Sr year of high-school better prepared to perform well in English and other writing intensive courses.
I have a friend who has a 16 yr old daughter in OH that lives with her dad. Dad has a wife that has 2 kids. One of the kids is away at juvenile and the other is a 17 year old boy. Dad works for GM and is losing job and having to downsize to a smaller living space. My friends daughter told her that her dad and them were moving into a 2 bedroom apartment. My friend of course says whoa whoa where are you sleeping and where is the 17 year old step brother sleeping if dad and wife have one room.
So does anybody know the law in OH about the sleeping arrangements of kids that old?
Well I am back and I have a question, my DH has placement and BM sees him wed and every other weekend, so now we disagree about how summer is suppose to go, the order reads she has him every other weekend on fridays at 4 until sun.
So I took a job at a company that I wasn't that keen on but being 26 weeks pregnant and not hearing anything back from any other company I thought why not.
Well I just got a call from the company I wanted to really work for and they offered me a job but the kicker is I'd have to start tomorrow!
I'm not sure what to do? Do I keep the job I took (I've only been here a week) or take the job I was just offered?
Ok..well I have promised FH that I will not start an argument EVERYTIME BM's name comes up..so I'm going to vent here.
Well now I'm told I'm the cause of all his depression, I'm the reason he drinks, he was fine before I came along and blah blah blah. I told him if that's the case than as soon as I get full time job he's free to leave. Well he didn't want that.
The whole thing is revolting to me!
I let him have it (verbally of course). I told him he needs to be a man, take responsibility for his own problems and quit blaming everything on everyone else in his life.
I need to re-cap to make this all make sense. I was told that even though I took the week off from work to go to Tybee island with my SO and two SSs and the MIL, that I wasn't going to be able to go because MIL wanted the week to be about her and the boys. At the time SO and I had been arguing and she didn't want to deal with that at all and just wanted boy time. I was miffed gloriously and made it known that if the situation was reversed I would tell MIL that she had to like it or lump it.
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