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Well I had a decent laugh last night. My B/F had his 9 y.o. son last night and they went to get something to eat. While they were talking, his son said that BM told him that I was probably sick (I have a cold and bronchitis) because I was pregnant..... My B/F had a vasectomy while he was married to her!!! Why she would tell him something like that I don't know. Well, other than she is a psycho. The part that bothers me is that the little guy was the one who was sooo upset.
I have 2 SK one SS10 and one SD7 that we have all of the time. My H and I also have an almost 2 yr old BD and one on the way. BM is nuts. I am only 24. It's so great to see that other people are in situations similar to mine and understand how I feel! None of my friends/family get it. They just say "Hang in there." or that I have to get over it. It's so emotionally and mentally exhausting and I suffer from severe depression. The SKids aren't so bad but just everything to go with it really gets to me!
Well just to let all of you know, I did take the medicine out today, she called my DH and told him she was on her way and asked him to have me send SS out and my DH said well you need his medicine and she said oh Jesus its not a big deal have ...
I am new to the site and have to say that I am very happy to have found it. I have been dating a guy for 1.5 years that has 2 sons, 9 and 12. Lately I have been beginning to think that I have gotten into something I am not sure that I want to continue with. He is not technically divorced yet, but obviously I met him after he separated. He left her because she was a control freak and cheated on him several times. I have no children of my own but have been married once before.
Just wondering how your DH proposed, and if it was everything you wanted!!
If he has not proposed yet, how do you imagine it to be?
DH called and Zippy16.5 made it through dental sugery. DH has Zippy happily ensconsed in the family room on the lazy boy, with blankies and pillow -TV remote in hand happily playing nursemaid to his "only baby" all afternoon-
DH made sure to buy all the foods etc. and will be at Zippy's beck and call until I get home to a list of things that need to be done for Zippy16.5 tonight.
I was just reading lil_teapots blog on her counseling session, I have NO problems with profesional counseling, however if I go I will make darn sure my counselor is a stepparent!!!
I thought of some of the common platitudes thrown out to stepparents-here are some of my favourites:
Whatever age the children maybe there are a few things you need to bear in mind:
Recognize That in the Relationship with Your Step Child You Are the Adult
When You're Parenting, They're All Your Kids
how to post a picture. This is my boy Duncan.
So I basically can't stop crying today because I miss my old life. I miss being single and living in NYC. I miss being free and independent. I miss not having to deal with SD8's **** and let alone the socio. I'm tired.
Hi there... I'm not completely new here, but this is my first time writing a blog. Does anyone have the problem where H does not want to confront the ex because of the affect on SD? My husband and I have a great relationship, but we are carrying all of BM responsibilities. Counselor told us we need to assert our rights for our own relationship good, if just to make BM take care of her own commitments, but H keeps stalling. He says it's money or that SD could hear it from BM and BM family - which is true, unfortunately.
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