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You know I actually was having hope that maybe BM could be somewhat civil. I wasn't hoping that she would be totally civil but somewhat. Well there is not hope now for the f'ing b***h. She is evil and will never change. Why do we keep having hope in the sociopaths in our lives?? Just ranting and am mad at myself for thinking there could actually be hope!!! No more...there is none.
and feel like sh*t for it! I had told DH that I would no longer be bathing sd3 anymore because he had told me last week that all of a sudden "I didn't do it the right way" But I caved this morning after 3 days without a bath she was starting to reeeeekkkk! So yes I gave her a shower. Plus she's going back to bm tonight and I didn't want her to smell that bad. I have all kinds of reasons to justify it but damn I just wish I could say it and really stick to it! Oh BTW HAPPY EASTER all!
Well to everyone else Happy Easter...
Yup, you read that right. BD (skids half sister) will be turning one on Wed. Of course, BM has the skids that day due to the every other day ping pong schedule we are living under until this court thing gets resolved. We are also having a party for her with my family next weekend, when, yes BM also has the skids. Seeing as BM is psychotic and refuses to bend even for 15 minutes, the skids will miss BD's birthday and her party with my family. DH's family said "oh we'll just celebrate BD's birthday on Easter when we're all together". Please folks, don't all get excited at once.
So as we all know I do not have a good relationship with BM actually it sucks, so the other day was my SS birthday and his BM made cupcakes to take to school however his school does not allow outside food in, and she knows that but she told my DH who cares what are they going to do if I just show up with the cupcakes, well SS was sick all week and did not go to school the only day BM offered to watch him was on his birthday, and when my DH picked him up he brought home 4 cupcakes and a bag of goodies for our foster daughter, well I was pissed 3 years of her tring to ruin our lives and know
H had to work last night and when he came in this morning he was fussing about his job. Apparently the boss's 5 yr old daughter was in the office yesterday and made a huge mess. H was complaining about having to clean the mess, cleaning the office is part of his job. He said and I quote "She's not my kid so why should I clean her mess." He then starts with how he's not appreciated for all his work and they never say thank you to him. I couldn't help myself, I started laughing. When he asked what was so funny I told him that is exactly how he treats me.
Well, it is time to make travel arrangements for SS's summer visitation with the Sperms. SpermGrandMa called and began her whinny preface to the real discussion.
"Ticket prices are too high, hurry up and buy them before they go up!" Yadda yadda yadda, blah, blah, blah....
We told her the first time that she called that we needed her desired dates so we could work out the three family (mine, wife's, and the Sperm's) three state summer visitation circuit for SS. Hey, he is a popular kid in all three families and in high demand in the summer.
So I have been working at this super crappy job for about 2 months now and desperately looking for something else. The hours are crappy (too few), the pay is ridiculus (my son makes a buck less an hour than me) and the kicker - the boss has temper tantrums almost every week. I mean full blown crazy fits - screaming swear words and once throwing stuff. I have sent out at least 200 resumes since I lost my super awesome job back in mid-November and went on a few interviews with no luck.
if BM grounded SS11 for not taking his ADHD medication?
SS11 takes medication for BM's self diagnosis when he was 8 of ADHD. DH has joint custody and sees him every Tuesday. (the other 2 are with him) Whenever SS11 is dropped off and really hungry before we eat dinner we know that he hasn't had his "pill".
DH called BM about it and she said she didn't know if he took it or not she left it on the counter. She does go to work before the bus and there are 3 other adults in the house. DH is always making sure that he takes it on the mornings he is with him.
I have the kiddos from the 5th all the way thru the 17th-it is so nice knowing they will be well fed, well taken care of and I won't have to see BM for like 12 days-woohoo! It' slike a party without her interrupting and the boys seem so much mre at easy when they haven't had to spend a weekend with her. The Oldest SS17 just got his drivers license yesterday and the second oldest SS16 just got his permit last week. OMG! Scary. But now, thank the good Lord, the oldest is talking about getting a job and going to college-I am so excited for him. Life is good!
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