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FH got a letter in the mail today saying they were asking his employer for information on his wage. Only one problem he has not paid child support since SD3 was not even 1. This is because BM and FH went to the court house and signed papers saying she did not want to recieve child support. They made some sort of agreement that he wouldn't pay it. Currently we have SD3 50% of the time plus BM makes slightly more that FH so we are not worried about having to pay child support. What we were wondering is to get this paper in the mail does that mean she is tring for child support agian.
BM had no problem sending sd's for visitation even though my bd has whooping cough. I tried to keep bd away from sd's and they will be back on Friday night. I am truly suprised bm sent them, if they get it then that is her fault and they will not becoming to my home until they are not contagious.I do not want them getting it, but bringing them to our home is taking a great risk even though dh and I are following all precations.
So.. CBM did actually "find" DH's moms # yesterday and called to ask her to watch SS, she said she had a "seminar" to go to and would need to drop SS off early in the morning, but will get him later in the day before 5... Uhh.. what? DH's mom said "NO" because she has class today and can't do it.. She also knows what's up with CBM dropping off and failing to pick up her kids..
My post the other day got me thinking...plus I read Serena's blog on being made to feel bad because she's a SM.
Last night the youngest sil calls and apologizes for her and oldest sil's behavior. Then she tells me that she doesn't see how I can tolerate the way H and sd act all the time. I felt like telling her alcohol and lots of it. 
I couldn't tell her that I'm counting the minutes until sd is gone. Anyway I thank her and tell her to keep in touch. I don't really want anything to do with her or any one else in that family besides FIL.
And as ususal the drama is all over SD17.
SD17 is going to be 18 in May. She is dating a boy who is 15, so wasn't going to prom, because his mother said he couldn't go. Well, Mom changed her mind, decided it was ok after all.
First thing SD17 asked was for her father to buy her dress, for $360.00. WE refused. I did offer that there were some nice, but not expensive dresses on sale at JC Penny, and I had a coupon for free shipping, and it was left at that. Never heard anything more, till last nite.
SS5 last night informs my BD13 and I that when he used to go to my FH's X's house (not SS5's mom) afterschool for her to babysit him that her current BF at the time would make him...even push him sometimes when he refused to..upstairs and "play". FH's "baby" would be upstairs already in his crib. I sat him down and talked to him very nurturing and calmly and asked him to tell me what happened. SS has a habit of making up some stuff sometimes so before I told FH I wanted to make sure that SS was not "exagerrating".
Its been awhile since I post any drama in my life..But yesterday while we were at a local amusement park, I noticed the BM's live in BF..I guess my DH caught me looking at this guy, and was like whos that Im like oh noone..He was like no really I saw looking at him, and I swear I only glanced..But anyways I tell him because DH has never seen him, I saw him a few times when I was picking the skids up..He goes on to almost get in this mans face, looking like a fool he was like damn he looks like a nerd and starts laughing..Then Im like stop starring he said well you know what he looks like I
SS 8 is having MAJOR issues with his reading. I have posted before that he has ADHD. He is in the 2nd grade. The school did the skill level test on him and he is reading at the level of a end of the year first grader and he is really an end of the year second grader.
I want to wish everyone a happy easter this weekend
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