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Submitted by kaffonseca on Thu, 07/02/2009 - 12:54pm

Not sure if any of you remember my post about a friend who's wife left him because of his "son"..and he called and told me that he realized that perhaps it IS his son and his xwife that ruins his relationships? Well that is actually my Xfiance. He was and has been my one and only TRUE love ever.

We broke up for many reasons...Jen..you remember me mentioning my X being a cop..yep, that's him..he is a Boston cop and a Sergeant in the army. We were together five years...well after we broke up..met a chic married her on the rebound and had another daughter.

Still Here :)

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Thu, 07/02/2009 - 10:13am

Hi everyone..I miss you guys so much..AND I've realized that at my age (36 in 22 days) that most men ALREADY have children so I'm sure I WILL be a stepmom again..so if you don't all mind I'd like to hang around. I am a BM too so I can offer that side as well as having been a SM with a psycho pig BM in my life.

farewell..hope I never have the pleasure again..lol

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Tue, 06/30/2009 - 12:43pm

Of having to be on this site..IF I get involved with a man with kids again..I will make sure that there is NO drama before I commit to anything.

My "dear" FH WAS cheating whole time with BM..so my insecurities were NOT unfounded. All that time I thought I was the crazy..jealous..accusing one..nope.

How did I find out? He dumped me AGAIN when I got angry one night because he was out front AGAIN with his friend drinking..two Saturdays in a row he went out "clubbin" with his friend supposedly when in fact he was out with other girls.

Father's Day - anyone feeling anxious about it?

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Fri, 06/19/2009 - 11:48am

In my case..I am a little only because I know that BM who is always over the top will more than likely go out and get some extravagant mushy fathers day card and some gift - cologne..something..from SS(2),.I have to come realize that these materialistic items mean nothing to FH but they still irk me - I know it's from "SS" but still the idea of another woman ( and I say this because besides the fact that she is SS's BM she IS the other woman as she wants FH back).

wow..I'm sitting at my desk biting my tongue!

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Fri, 06/19/2009 - 10:14am

So the "gossips" in my office are all talking about how Giselle (Tom Brady's wife) is now pregnant with her own child. Now the women in my office are all married, but NO children OR stepchildren...all they talk about is "Real housewives or Tom&Kate plus 8" not to say I don't watch those shows too..but every morning they come in and speak negatively about everyone.

so Im SS's SM but your just moms "boyfriend?"

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Thu, 06/18/2009 - 3:38pm

I'm a little confused right now and mad. My FH is home today on his day off with his two boys and my BD13 is home from school. Now BD13 and FH get along fine..but he has never tried to "father" her...and I don't ask him to. She is old enough that she is pretty indepedant. BUT at the same time he is an adult in her life and should not put me in the middle if an adult situation comes up.

SS6 newest way of trying to get his way

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Thu, 06/18/2009 - 11:01am

HAHA..I can't fault the kid for trying..his newest line is "I have a good idea Kaff"..than he will proceed to tell me what he wants - a new toy..to play outside..etc.." isn't that a good idea? he'll say to me..

HAHA! usually I'll just "that's a great idea..but it's not happening"

Poor kid. HAHA.

The hard part it's summer and he is still in school..9pm and it's just getting dark..he wants to go outside and play cuz' he doesn't realize it's nighttime.So lately his good idea is "it's a good idea if I go outside and play on swing while you watch me , RIGHT? "
LOL

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