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Ok, so skankface emailed FH the other day and was pissed that ss14 was home sick at our house friday(as if it's her business) and that "i control the reins" so she can't have such "open lines of communciation" with FH anymore. She had the nerve to send this in an email, which I found in fh's email account.
I'm livid.
So we have a couple of re-occuring issues with BM. Honestly, for the most part we all get along, although DH and I strongly disagree with BMs parenting style.
Here are the things that are driving me crazy..
An update on yesterdays post...
When I got home from work yesterday I told my daughter that I was upset with her and that when we got home from taking the SK's to softball we would be sitting down and having a nice, long dicussion about her breaking the rules and being dishonest, with a punishment to follow.
For the last 2 years we've had a solid rule-with the exception of clothes and school items, nothing goes back and forth between our home and BM's home (the skids are with us 50/50.) This is due to the fact that stuff either 1) never comes home or 2) gets broken/stolen by the other kids in the house (BM's fiances kids who live w/them 50/50). We figure we're already forking out the $$$ for the skids wardrobes at BMs as they come home in clothes way too small and suspiciously the "nicer" clothes never return.
My husband has 2 kids and I have 2 kids from previous marriages. My husband and I have an arrangement with BM. They have shared custody, we get them for a week and she gets them for a week. My kids we have all the time except for EOW. On her weeks, because BM starts work early, she drops them off at our house so I can get all of the children to school and before school care. Yesterday, BM called me and told me that she was running a bit late and she would take them to school herself. The doors to the childcare and school open at 7:00.
My skids live with us full time because their BM couldn't handle it. Dh has never told them why etc. They are continually asking to go live with their BM. BM plays the victim with the kids all the time. Skids disrespect me, write nasty things about me, say nasty things. DH gets no love from them. Everything they have goes to their BM. She's so perfect in every way. GAG!!!!! I'm to the point where I want to tell my HB, Your kids need to go to their BMs and experience the real BM. No more us paying for lunches, no more us buying clothes, shoes, toys, eating out etc.
well, i've been reading for a few weeks. nice to know i/we are not alone. my guy and i have been together for over a year....we have ourselves a lovely little baby that no one else was really ready for...just us. we call him our freedom 55 plan...cuz we will be 55 when he leaves the house.....o we think we are funny too.
but day to day life is exhausting here.
Just realized I hadn't seen anything from her lately. Hope she's ok....
Just wondering:
How often do you bathe your kids/skids? And do you use soap on their genitals (specifically girls)?
I know that some girls are sensitive down there, but here's my situation:
My SD5 came over at Christmas with a rash and inflammation. We brought it to BM's attention and yes, she knew about it and would apply sudocreme (diaper rash cream) if SD felt like it (huh – who’s the parent?). Low and behold BM finally takes SD to the Dr.s and she has a staph infection.
I can't take anymore, I have to write a fanasty email or I will explode. A little background, (some of you may know some of it) I have three SDs 19, 17 and 14, who are exposed to a lot of PAS. SD19 is "special needs" (BP, BPD, FASD, etc) and has a 2 year old child. She was living with us but when she qualified for income assistance and started paying us rent and food after three months, mommy dearest caught the scent of money in the air and with oodles of promises manipulated her into moving back in with her (last time it lasted two weeks).