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OT: And just for FUN

FuBaR's picture

Oct8 blog and a few of you got my mind wondering..If you didnt have DH/SO and could have one person who would it be??

For me it would be Batista from WWE, a man with muscles,tats and a lil angry!!! Thats HAWT, it doesnt get any better than that..

This is for "fun" just bc we are married doesnt mean we are blind..So come on girls who is it gonna be??

I changed my name....

Sassy's picture

I was Sassy-stepmom and now I am just Sassy. There are a few reasons I changed it-no drama though, I swear.

1. I often log in on my iPhone and it's a pain in the butt with the hyphen and all that.

2. I am tired and lazy and I don't wanna type the whole long name out.

3. I just thought of this one-I am very Sassy, but I am not just a stepmom, I am also a mom, so now I'm just Sassy Smile

relationships!

tribe's picture

is anything harder?
i mean we are all here cuz we met someone and fell in love and thought that would be enough
and then the baggage shows up. ex's, emotions and yes even children.
i have four from my farce...and somedays i feel like they are gonna wreck my chances at being happy.
and they KNOW THAT they are a strain on my new life...and they feel horrible...not bad enough to change mind you...but bad all the same
i feel bad for my new love

Update on our situation

imagr8tma's picture

We were very pleased with the counter motion for custody modification our lawyer filed, and with the conversations we have had with him. All of the information and evidence is prepped and ready to go.

The court date was scheduled for 6 May, but BM's lawyer picked up a murder case and now the date has been pushed back to 14 July. Which works out better since SD will not be in school during that court case - and now we are building even more information against her to be used cuase of course she is back to acting a dang fool.

Guilt over divorce.

serious's picture

8 years ago, my husband and I started a relationship and got married after knowing each other since we were 10 years old. We were both married to others and had one child each. My husband can not get over the guilt. His ex won't let him forget and she has not moved on or even dated. She controls the time that he can see his kid and if he argues, she'll make it difficult for him to see her. His child is great and loves me. My kid loves all of us but my husband can hardly function anymore because of the guilt. Does anyone know what to do.

Mother's day at SD5 school, just what I expected...

Gia's picture

OF COURSE A STEPMOTHER DOESN'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO GET MOTHER'S DAY CARDS...

Today SD5 made a card (ONE AND ONLY) for mother's day at school. They also gave her 2 necklaces that have a paper heart that says "mom" with glitter and what not...

I have been very active in SD5, I have been the primary "driver" to pick her up and drop her off her Prek, I have talked to her teachers, I know her friends, friends' parents, etc...

They Know I'm the stepmom, and every time I go there I go with my 1 year old son, so they know that I am a biological mom as well...

DH's try so hard... but just don't seem to get it...

SRS177's picture

My DH e-mails me yesterday to let me know that he has to pick up SD11 even though we only have her EOW and Wednesday nights. He had to take her to school this morning because he says EW is going to Arkansas and picking up her mom to take her somewhere for mother's day. I always complain about how they are so buddy-buddy and know everything about each other's lives since they talk 3 times a day. So, he makes a point to add in (know I don't know where, don't care, didn't ask). And, I'm thinking okay, I realize he is trying to appease me there, but he doesn't get it, something like that...

TOTALLY OT - miscarriage? a little TMI

kaffonseca's picture

I'm at work at my desk trying to hold it together. I think I'm having a miscarriage (didn't even know I was pregnant). I go to the doctor in 45 minuts. It started out bleeding earlier this week (a week before period is due)..I NEVER have breakthru. I AM on the pill also..but got pregnant on the pill before - go figure.

I started bleeding, but not alot..it would stop. This has been going off and on all week..than last night I started having really bad lower dull pains in my uterus area..and than this am I've been having back pains.

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