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Ok, I don't want to start a fight before I have more info. Hoping you all have some insight. My DH and I have had discussions about beneficiaries, and how he has Skids as his. Of course, this PISSES me off. I am his wife and should be the beneficiary to all of his benefits. My thoughts on it are this:
If the kids get it before 18-will BM get her hands on it? Or will it be in a trust for them?
So... for those of you that don't know my situation, to put it simple, WE all live pretty close, and BM and I have been alternating the days we take SD5 to her prek, although her preK is about 3 minutes from her house, and like 12 from mine, if she drops her off, I pick her up and take her to school next day, and then she picks her up, and takes her to school the next day and so on... so she is here every other day and every other weekend...
Just before BF3 and I advised BM we wanted to go to court to sort visitation out, BM needed SS looked after for two hours wednesday evenings and had ask if BF3 and I could do it we said of course we would love to...... cause we are not playing HER ball game by going to court she has decided that she will find any excuse so we don't get to see SS.
I went to see my son, and came home and found all these Happy Birthdays from my friends here. Thank you all.
I left about 9:30 in the morning, got to my sons apartment about 12:30/1:00. We had so much fun! We went shopping-he wanted to get me a gift, and his gf bd is in a few days, so we shopped for her too. Went out and grabbed a sandwich, then my son bought a grill and grilled burgers & brat for his gf and I. We downloaded our favortie youtube videos, played games...had a beer to two.
Crap, again, I hate being the bigger person. Today I had to put our doggy to sleep. It turned out he had cancer and was going to starve to death otherwise. So, I sobbingly took him in and did the deed, I hate being the mom. So he was originally my DH's dog with the ex and the kids. They had him for 14 years, so al the kids grew up with him. We had him the last 3 of those 14 years and I became quite attached. I am a real real real animal lover. When idiot moved to another county, she was eaving him home the whole week and feeding him one big dish of food.
Its been awhile. BM has been okay for a bit until now. FSS1 1/2 has had about 6 ear infections, that we know of, since birth. The most recent was this past week. BM emailed BF stating that the dr was talking about tubes if they continue. BF asked BM if baby was still on the bottle. BM replied, that sounds like an accusatory question but yes FSS has a bottle at sleep times and went on to describe that baby is in a upright postion and weaning has been hard for them both. All BF did was ask a simple question. FSS had been weaned at BF's for almost 3 months.
Steptalkers, I typed this at work when I was really emotional and it didn't post. Divine intervention maybe...who knows. Here is my issue/question.
SD18 (not H's bio) and SD16 (bio of H0 opted 2 years ago to move out and live with BM. We haven't had much interaction with them for many reasons:
So BM gave less than a 30 day notice to say that they were moving. Didn't really say buying but insinuated it none the less. So house was easy to find online. Old rental they are currently in is for sale. Showed pics of the inside and all. What is to be new address BM provided is listed for sale "short sale" and shows and active listing. This is all just last week. Today after speaking to some friends in the mortgage industry I decided to peek around again. Backstory: BM said that they owned the house they are currently in = lie.
Happy belated mom's day to everyone!
sooo, i get home and fh is on the phone with the ex. on speaker as usual so i can hear. She calls in tears, and of course fh thinks something is wrong with ss, so he asks, wtf is wrong? She says, oh nothing ss is fine, hes swimming at the kids down the street (btw, hes 3 almost 4, why is she not with him?) anyways, she goes on to say that things are really bad between her and bf, and its been a rough couple weeks. so fh, giggles and says, well ya know theres not much i can do about that, have ss call me when he gets back. she was silent and then says okay, bye.