When SD5 is around we fight a whole lot more...
When SD5 is around we fight a whole lot more...
I HATE IT
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When SD5 is around we fight a whole lot more...
I HATE IT
So yesterday, in anticipation of BM picking up SS11 (SS16 and SS17 already made plams to avoid her and were at friends houses) I put my car in the garage. You see, she likes to come to the door and even come into my house if she thinks we aren't home. So, with hubby working over and me the only one home, I thought I'd test her and mess with her a little bit too. Sure enough, she thought no one one was and came right up to the door (she never even gets out of her car if I'm home). She almost crapped herself when I was the one answering it.
Umm Ok, so I take my son to get his baseball pics and then DH & I decide that we'll take the boys to the mall for lunch and to get them both a belt, which they have needed for about a month now.
So first we stop at World Market to get this delicious wine that we both love and as I'm getting SS out of the car, guess what???
He has saturated his pants COMPLETELY..
DH was livid as we didn't want to have to go back home and
smacked him on the ass a good time.
so its saturday, usually my only day off, but its our weekend with ss, so while fh is at work im watching ss4. Usually he is really good for me, but the last two times have been horrible thanks to bm and my mil. they are a true case of pas, from what ive ben reading. Last time ss informed me that he didnt want to go to my moms house because mil told him she was bad, now today he has said that if i dont do what he wants he will go live with his mom...and other crappy comments that are obviously coming from bm and mil.
that she started! I just don't get it. BM started this crap in my opinion, because DH and I got married. When we were dating she wasn't really around and then when we got engaged decided she needed to spend time with the boys. I was hoping that with me in the picture she would finally step up as a Mom. BM has done some real stupid stuff since we got engaged. Then 2 months after we got married she filed for custody and continued to do stupid stuff with the kids. Like drop of SS11 (10 at the time) at Dh with no announcement then use the excuse that she cleared it with a 13 year old.
recently.
The comment was made by Gisele Bundchen, who recently married Tom Brady, who has a son with his ex-GF. She said in Vanity Fair something like "just because someone else delivered him, doesn't mean that's not my son. I feel like it is, from the very first day."
Her comments drew a mixed reaction from a lot of people. Some said that she was overstepping boundaries; others said that there was nothing wrong with what she said. While her SS's mom didn't say anything, friends of hers did have some complaints, some of which I thought were/are valid.
Apparently SS found it acceptable to PEE on the couch while watching tv, now I don't mean a little bit I mean a full fledged piss..Now I was unaware of all of this, as I was hiding and watching my dvr'd shows in the bedroom..
I hear DH saying something to SS downstairs but could care less because, I'm upstairs, and well they're downstairs not bothering me..
I leave after my shows to pick up my daughter at her friends and DH tells me that SS peed on the couch because he fell asleep..
So we just went to pick up SS
Mind you BM is always late and we are ALWAYS driving 1.5 hrs. away each way.. Well today God forbid we were caught in traffic and we were 10 min. late in getting to the pick up point, she texts DH then after sending the text calls him 20 seconds later.. I thought I would be an a** and started yelling "HANG UP!" "HANG UP" "We'll be there when we get there!" in the background.. heheheh...
DH said BM was like.."WHAT'D SHE SAY? HUH? WHAAATT DID SHEEE SAY?!"
Has anyone gone after BM for child support? DH and I have custody and while we can mostly afford SD, it irks me to no end that BM does not have to pay for health insurance, or anything real about bringing a child up. She sincerely asked DH if he could consider the fact that she buys clothes for SD once in a while as her contribution to the upbringing of child!! If it was that easy - we'd all be great supporters, no???
BM is apparently complaining because the week long vacation that we've planned starts on what is "technically her weekend." I would like to know how she expects BF to get SS for two weeks over the summer and one of those weekends to NOT fall on what would have "normally" been her weekend. Funny how it's OK for her to plan trips and activities on what would "normally" be BF's time and expect him to just deal with it.