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BM & SD21 are threatening DH if he doesnt pay medical bills to confiscate his $1000 boat
Looks like the honeymoon is over with for BM & now she is coming after DH once again for SD21 medical bills. Apparently SD21 couldnt find a way to pay for her medical bills. Story on medical bills is that SD21 wouldnt go to an approved doctor in our medical plan while away at college & now the medical bills are preventing SD21 from reentering college in a few weeks. SD21 has made no effort to get a job to pay for her own bills as a result of her ignorance to how our medical plan works.
BM is getting married 12 years later to her dude that she had an affair with on DH.
Its been great to have no baby mama drama for the last six months ever since BM finally got her BF to marry her after 12 years of being divorced from DH. She met her BF in the church after his wifey died & left him with 6 kids. I find it so funny that its taken all these years for them to finally tie the knot. Its really funny that they have been living together before the wedding with some of the kids even tho BM made it crystal clear to us that we were the worst people on earth when we lived together before we got married many years ago.
Im headed to a food pantry soon & DH is asking SS what restaurant he wants to go to?
I have lost my income completely & times have become rather difficult in an instant. Ive laid it out to DH that we need to plan our budgets together & that he will have to assume much more than ever before. After that conversation, he takes SS out for McD's after he picked up SS????? Today we are headed for a community event that was free & what does he do but ask SS in the car if he wants breakfast or lunch. DH then asked SS what restaurant he wanted to go to??? I put it really nice & said if you want to come with me to the food pantry next week that would be great.
I told DH for the millionth time I am not interested in hearing about skids or BM
Whenever I attempt to talk about our marriage is...DH just keeps singing the same story about his kids & BM. If we go out on date night he always breaks the rules & talks about skids, BM & his job(Big NO NO).I am letting go of trying to keep trying to keep trying. I am really beginning to like being at home alone now more than ever before. I told him straight up today that I dont care about their lil lives bottom line! I am not in the least bit interested in their new drama everyday. Can anyone relate?????
DH finally talks to me about my words to SD20 TEN DAYS LATER!!
DH finally broke his silence after 10 days & wanted to discuss my words to SD20 when I told her its rather awkward that she was here at our home...she goes why? I go cuz your so disrespectful. You would of thought I shot her dead. I am dealing with a family that is totally passive agressive, expect everyone to bow at their feet & beyond stubborn.
DH told me that none of his family are ever coming over again**this includes sk's**
ALLEJUIA...Ive been praying for the moment for years when they would get old enuf & get a life of their own. The price I pay for all this is the silent war between DH & me. OH WELL! Its worth it to know that his offspring will be staying with BM where they belong!No more of feeding those suckers out of my own money or putting up with DH totally treating me as if I am invisible while they are visiting. My DH told me the only time you'll see them is for funerals...HA why would I bother to go see those disrepectful leaches.
SD20 got DH to give her $$ when she came out for her cameo visit
I looked at the bank statement online & saw that DH took out sk's for lunch & dinner at expensive restaurants over the weekend & he even gave SD20 $50. (When we go out for dinner he looks at me like how much did you contribute) All this spending was down on borrowed credit. DH acts like he is disney dad...showering them with $$. However, he doesnt have it to give! This is why I keep my $$ seperate from ours. He just got thru telling me last week that he wasnt cutting checks anymore.
DH sides with SD20
DH made a decision to bring SD20 over this past weekend w/o even asking me! I was/am FURIOUS! I do not get along with her due to plenty of disrespect around the holidays & in general to both of us. As it turns out, she showed up in my kitchen Sat nite & I told her that it was completely awkward ..she goes why?? I told her cuz she's been so disrespectful. DH was standing there the whole 1/2 minute this happened. DH didnt try to sit us down & talk it thru or nothing.
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SD decides she needs airplane ticket back to college
SD told DH last week when were tryin to buy her airplane ticket back to college that she was not going back-she lost her scholarship.It was supposed to be her Xmas gift...but too late now since DH already gave her a $$gift.Now she decides she's goin back til May. At the last minute...DH buys her airplane ticket at a much higher rate. She refuses to spend the night here (dont want her to)& hung up on DH since he told her he was goin to drive SD back with FIL & the whole gang.DH promises everything,but cant deliver.
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Christmas vacation with SS is now over...yahoo!
DH is on his merry way to take home SS to BM. BM just called to tell DH that there is a major storm where she is at. Never in all the years has she EVER met him half way to retrieve her lil brat. I am so happy that I get the full day & part of the nite to myself. Yes, its that far away. This was one of the most inexpensive vacation weeks spent here....it helped that I was home to monitor the spending. Now, the real vacation begins......
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