My spouse has a 3 1/2 year old niece that I dislike very much. It all started about 3 yrs ago my spouse lost his mom and his half sisters were NEVER in his life while he was taking care of his sick mother. Not once did they call to support him during this process. When she passed away, they saw where they could take advantage of his emotions by wanting him to see his nieces and nephews that he has never met and no one to take care of them. The aunt even had the audacity to fill his head as to what is going on with these children. He told her that he would take care of the toddler.

My DH's Ex (like many of yours) was the one who bailed on DH. (she thought the grass was greener with her partner at work). Yet I find it very odd that she is obsessed over DH doing every skid activity WITH her! DH and I (we have 50/50 placement) have petitioned the court for a set placement schedule to eliminate BM essentially telling DH when she was taking the kids each month. Our goal is to have this all set in an effort to decrease the frequency of contact with her. Previously DH and BM would every month have to "sit down" to debate that month's schedule. Enough of that!

Let me explain the question.. as I am sure a majority of you remember this movie from the 90s...

About 5 yrs ago, I bought a house. I was not yet married to my dh, but we had been dating, and my 1 bedroom condo wasnt big enough for my dh and skids to visit... so I bought a fixer upper and sold my beloved condo... about a year later, bm bought a house....

About 1 yr ago, I bought a brand new car, as my beloved car of 9 yrs was just costing too much to continue to repair, I reluctantly got the new car... about 6 mths after that, bm bought a new car...

Not sure if any of you remember my post about a friend who's wife left him because of his "son"..and he called and told me that he realized that perhaps it IS his son and his xwife that ruins his relationships? Well that is actually my Xfiance. He was and has been my one and only TRUE love ever.

We broke up for many reasons...Jen..you remember me mentioning my X being a cop..yep, that's him..he is a Boston cop and a Sergeant in the army. We were together five years...well after we broke up..met a chic married her on the rebound and had another daughter.