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*** I'am blogging this because somebody on this site gave me the courage to do so.
*** If your my husbands ex reading this STOP STALKING ME
Of having to be on this site..IF I get involved with a man with kids again..I will make sure that there is NO drama before I commit to anything.
My "dear" FH WAS cheating whole time with BM..so my insecurities were NOT unfounded. All that time I thought I was the crazy..jealous..accusing one..nope.
How did I find out? He dumped me AGAIN when I got angry one night because he was out front AGAIN with his friend drinking..two Saturdays in a row he went out "clubbin" with his friend supposedly when in fact he was out with other girls.
Well BM has taken SD to the counselor again - even after the last session in Feburary stated there was no need to bring her back as there was no evidence of abuse, nightmare, fears of dad and stepmom and no evidence of wrong doing.
So now - becuase DH would not give up his weekend visit for a birthday party, and his summer visits for dance camp (which does not happen until the week after his visit ends) she has gone to the counselor with the child on 28 of May.
Here's a quick question for y'all.
I live in the house fh shared with bm...she's still on the mortgage but he has title(don't even get me started lol).
Anyways, they lived there for 13 years.
I gave up my condo to live with him and we got engaged.
The Bm hates me, has sent threatening emails, etc...has made my life miserable--I won't even go to functions where she is at because she makes me physically sick.
So knowing this, fh golfed at a charity event for his ex bro in law, which really made me mad.
My SD has her own personal email account. I sent her pictures of my other kids, family, etc. Come to find out BM logged in to SD's account and fowarded these pictures to her own personal account as well as her mother's account.
WHY? Yes, she is obviously psychotic but is this illegal to do? What right does she have to email around my children's pictures?
hahahah I thought BM stood for B**CH Mom and DH stood for Dum Husband.. Boy do I have lot to learn about blogging on this site. Thanks for being there and sharing your stories.. It's rough and many day I wonder WHAT THE H*LL am I doing:-) Nice to know other crazy people - xoxoxoxox
I have been looking for articles that reference fathers and how to handle a new wife as a stepmother, but that isnt all about the kids. Does anyone have any links to something like that?
I am so hurt and confused by the same token. I have been married for 6 years and I have to Boys of my own ages 2 with my husband and a 13 yr old from my prev. relationship. He has 1 boy age 8 and 1 girl age 10 and Their mom that always seems to be part of the root of the problem. Since I met him I have had issues with the Bio Mom. When I gave Birth to my soon to b 3 year old son, she NEVER let me see his kids again, so I really have'nt seen them since. I used to see them every single weekend and the loved me I mean they loved me!
I have recently told my SO that I love her, I love her two boys but I am also happy that she has asked for space because that gives me the freedom to not have the responsibility that is 'THEM' first and foremost in my thoughts. She was a bit taken back. I wrote for her a long email that outlined our issues and it was divided between her issues with me, and my issues with her. We have discussed these on certain levels and I have decided that whenever we reach a crossroads that I will circle the issue, and save it for a councilor that I hope to soon be able to afford.
I met the man of my dreams 7 yrs ago Everything about him is beautiful to me . I have never thought of another and times have been very hard and trying. I could live in a box and have nothing but him and feel true happiness. Sometimes he is hard on me but, at the end of the day I know I can be very needy and a pain:-)Even 7yrs later I want to cry when we make love for all i feel with this man that is so much my heart and soul. He has 3 children we now share a beautiful baby boy. Wow 4kids!!!! I have watched his little ones grow up. They hold a special place in my heart.