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I have been looking for articles that reference fathers and how to handle a new wife as a stepmother, but that isnt all about the kids. Does anyone have any links to something like that?
I am so hurt and confused by the same token. I have been married for 6 years and I have to Boys of my own ages 2 with my husband and a 13 yr old from my prev. relationship. He has 1 boy age 8 and 1 girl age 10 and Their mom that always seems to be part of the root of the problem. Since I met him I have had issues with the Bio Mom. When I gave Birth to my soon to b 3 year old son, she NEVER let me see his kids again, so I really have'nt seen them since. I used to see them every single weekend and the loved me I mean they loved me!
I have recently told my SO that I love her, I love her two boys but I am also happy that she has asked for space because that gives me the freedom to not have the responsibility that is 'THEM' first and foremost in my thoughts. She was a bit taken back. I wrote for her a long email that outlined our issues and it was divided between her issues with me, and my issues with her. We have discussed these on certain levels and I have decided that whenever we reach a crossroads that I will circle the issue, and save it for a councilor that I hope to soon be able to afford.
I met the man of my dreams 7 yrs ago Everything about him is beautiful to me . I have never thought of another and times have been very hard and trying. I could live in a box and have nothing but him and feel true happiness. Sometimes he is hard on me but, at the end of the day I know I can be very needy and a pain:-)Even 7yrs later I want to cry when we make love for all i feel with this man that is so much my heart and soul. He has 3 children we now share a beautiful baby boy. Wow 4kids!!!! I have watched his little ones grow up. They hold a special place in my heart.
I have a ten year old step son who has bowel movements in his pants, denies it, cleans his self up then just goes about his business, his mom has mental issues ( bi polar ) is this a sign or symptom? Dad keeps talking to him but really hasn't done much else. There is no complaints of stomachaches, just does it. By the way the 16 year old step daughter will pee her pants because she doesn't want to stop what she is doing and the 6 year old stepson won't wipe his self after because dad will do it.
I saw SMJ's blog about her and DH's song from Mary J. Blige and thought!! Oh!! Yay! How nice!
At our wedding, DH and I danced to Rod Stewart's version of The Way You Look Tonight. We did CD's as our Wedding Favors and also named each of the tables at our reception after a song on the CD.
We wanted to change our song at the very last minute to The Story by Belinda Carlisle!! But, since all of the CD's and table cards had been made, we stuck with The Way You Look Tonight. But The Story is so beautiful and fits us too.
I just got done telling DH that he will be buying the extra groceries for SS..who eats big meals every 2 hours. I am glad he is not going out to eat,BUT I am not paying for this extra added expense. Plus SS is inviting kids from the neighborhood to eat over & I am not feeding all these people. DH was like what?? I told him that this was his choice not mine
I am so tired of being the only f*ing bad guy in this relationship! My SS16 was failing a class we know he could have done better in all year and he scraped by with a D- to pass it at the very end. If it was up to me only, I would ave hanged that boy! So my DH and i said fine, he's been grounded from everything for almost the whole school year so we will keep him in touble all summer but make it a half grounding. So we gave him back the XBOX priveledges and TV (mostly so he wouldn't drive us nuts), but he still has no musioc or phone priveledges. I thought that was extremely fair.
So BM's only phone which is turned off every other month is off again PERMANENTLY.. So we have had SS since last Sat. afternoon..
This boy I just don't get he has been grounded many times watching porn in the last 7 months! Just moments ago I jsut went into the kitchen to get my kool aid for the nite and he's in the kitchen on the computor watching this mess! The boy ain't got no friends, he ain't a bad lookin dude, he got a cell phone but it don't ring....... help. Me to understand ..... somebody help! He's dad has taken the computor away from him, he has talked him..... what is the damn deal the boy ain't got a girl friend and from the looks of things will never have one....