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I re-focused all of my energy on my own children this past week & i feel so much better about myself as a parent. I decided that raising SD was really none of my business & since DH wasn't going to allow me to help, the only thing that i could do was step back & leave it up to him.
I suppose i will start at the beginning... Please beware as this is ridiculously long!!
I met the BF at work. We have separate enough positions that this seems to work out ok for us. Our relationship is amazing. We are best friends and can share anything. He has always been extremely supportive and understanding throughout our entire relationship. I am in love with this man.
This is a great debate to which I have never been able to draw an obvious sensus. How many of you feel that you can stay good friends with an Ex and not have it turn into either a flirting game, emtional cheating or worse?
OK, so after my husband sent BM the email advising her to send a letter (or email) saying whatever it is that she has to say, BM sent an email back. It went something like this:
NO...what I have to say to you has to be said on the phone. It doesn't have to be this week, but the sooner the better. When you hear what I have to say, you'll see why.
How many out here have had H file for change of parenting and child support and the case turn out in H favor reducing the support owed. Let's say the support was hypothetically cut in 1/2. Did the judge reduce it back from the day H had his petition filed?
This guilt doesn't come from my divorce or my kids not seeing their dad much. I know this because I only "guilt" parent my BD14.
We are down to only a couple of weeks left with ss's. I still don't want them to go. Dh says he is going to talk to BM to see if we can keep them a couple of additional weeks, but I already know what the answer is going to be. But hey, if Dh is going to take the step and call to ask her, kudos to him. I am so proud. This also means, I only have a couple of weeks to plan 4 birthday parties and a late 4th of July celebration as we didn't have any money to get fireworks on the 4th.
So here goes...may be long so I apologize but I really have no one else and am going insane living like this...
Once again, my DH has stormed out of the house because I spoke the TRUTH.
We've had a semin- normal summer as fare as our visitation with bio-mom goes. In the last few years that the kids have been older, and my husband went from 9 month teaching to a year round teaching position, bio-mom and I have worked together to create schedules that work for us and the kids.
I've never blogged before, this is all new to me. But I guess it's just like the prayer journal that i write in every day except bloggin is a public journal in which everyone can read if they choose to do so.
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