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And a friend of mine says the BM is going around showing everybody this text from FH to HER saying "love you".
I got furious. I explained to this friend how the skids sent the text. I had to help them find her number in FH's phone so that they could send her a text. I didn't know what they sent until a couple days ago. Although, I'm sure my friend believes me - others won't.
Today was a really rotten day. My husband's 17 yr old daughter really showed her tail. Apparently she came into possesion of a digital recorder. After investigating and looking on the SD card I was able to figure out the real owner. I called my sister and asked her if she had given AT permission to use this camera. The answer was 'No' and my sister was also missing several other items. Of course now AT wants to high tail it back up north because she was caught for her misdeed. I am so ready to send this girl back.
First of all, I just have to say how "empowering" (that's not really the word I want, but I can't think of the right one...) it is to be able to truly release my thoughts and feelings here, and to have so many people offer advice and insight from their lives.
For the last week, my life has been a mess. I won't recap, if you're interested, see my other posts. Anyway, DH and I finally had time to talk last night. Since he was getting ready to leave town on business, I made conversation mandatory.
BM finally agreed to BF's stipulations to drop his lawsuit for full custody: proving that she has a job and allowing someone to inspect her home to ensure that it is a safe and healthful environment to raise a child in. For those that don't know, BM is ... well, "crazy" is the best way to say it I guess. Have you ever seen that show "Hoarders?" That's how her house is. No exaggeration. It's awful.
I recently posted that when my SS11 left my home for custodial time with BM 10$ was missing. Well I did ask my SS11 about it over the phone and he said he had no idea what happened to the money... OF COURSE. Well two days past and I get a voicemail from BM that SS11 is upset and afraid to come back to our home because he is afraid I don't believe him about the money and that he was going to be in trouble. OKAY, if that is not a guilty conscience, I don't know what is.
I keep reading blogs, and I didn't want to post another one on this subject because I was told yesterday that all the blog hogging got under a friend of mines skin and when others were needing help everyone was to busy on the fight train that I produced. So I wanted to let it go.
But I can't.
This year I inherited a great deal of money from a relative (which my husband and I are planning on using to buy our first home). My husband has a daughter and I am just worried that if we file our taxes jointly this year...the bio mom could come back and try to get some of my inheritance.
My step-daughter is in my will...so its not a matter of excluding her from this money...I just don't want to be forced to give bio mom the money that she isn't entitled to.
Even though filing separately is usually not the best option....should I go this route?
Hi everyone
I had back surgery this week and will be laid up for weeks in a back brace and then several weeks of PT afterwards.
FH is working, just started back teaching, and I am spending a lot of time on ST reading, gives me something to do besides go crazy here in the hospital., I will be going home Tomorrow.YIPPY. I will have nurses coming in a few times a week and a cna to help me...just wished one of the kids were here ( they all live hours away)..since FH works and I wil be alone most of the day time hours.
Sooooooooo long story short BM is on the brink of eviction and DH wants to have SD4 come live with us....PERMANENTLY. Now this would be perfectly fine if she was a child who shat rainbows and glitter, but NOOOOO this child spews acid. BM already has a new place picked out so its NOT like they will be street or minivan dwellers. I told DH that unless someone gets lil miss sunshine's attitude and behavior in check that she will continue having visitation and sleep over occasionally but cannot live here permanently. I can't deal with the mini monster on visit days let alone round the clock.
Her and her daughter had a screaming fest at each other just 3-4 nights ago... where BM got off the phone because she was too upset and had to be consoled and SD was lying on the floor in a puddle.
DH told BM how much she hurt her daughter. And her response? "She's FINE and SHE LOVES ME. Everything is fine . You are turning her away from me."
Hmmm.... the ability to live in denial must be a wonderful thing. I wish I had it.