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not to visit DH here at home. Evidently, she feels some vibe w/me. WHAT??? Last time she was here, on NY's eve, I spent the whole evening playing games w/her, DH and nephew after my little ones went to bed.
After talking to therapist/friend, I had DH take "Five Love Languages" to SD and ask her to read the 5 love languages and let us know which one she is (I have everyone else pegged in my family, but her). Now she won't even read it. I guess I cannot meet her needs.
Okay. My SS lives with us his is 17 and we were at a wrestling match yesterday and he was with his mom for a couple hours after school yesterday and she brought him to the match. He doesn't wrestle my younger ss does. So when he got there he didn't even say hi to me or acknowledge me at all. This has happened on several occasions when we have to go to events. Their dad, my husband their dad coaches the wrestling. So I sat with my in-laws who she said hello to and then she did say hi to me (I guess cause I was sitting right there) But my ss doesn't even acknowledge me.
For the third consecutive visit - my SD has not come with her medications. (Absolutely NO Medications!) She usually comes with 4 - 5 at a time most other visits.
Over the past 6 years - BM has made DH believe all these medications were absolutely necessary. Just last summer she sent DH an email stating SD could die on his watch after she found out we had latex ballons at a birthday party here in VA. (Not to mention she had them as well at the birthday party the day before)
I can take this much longer, this boy won't listen to ANYTHING I say.And I am starting to think about leaving.
I just feel like i'm ignoring ss completely, are their certain ways of dissengageing, or is it just ignoreing their existance? What do I do?
My scale has been stuck on the same value for a week.
I hope it is wrong.
Weigh in is tonight.
Maintaining weight = boring
How Fights Get Started...
My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels.
She asked, 'What's on TV?'
I said, 'Dust.'
And then the fight started....
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My wife and I were watching "Who Wants To Be A Millionaire" while we were in bed. I turned to her and said, "Do you want to have sex?"
"No," she answered.
I then said, "Is that your final answer?"
She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying, "Yes."
DH's parting words on the phone last night were "Figure it out, someone has to leave," regarding me and an issue with his kids.
He hardly said 2 words to me at all last night when he got home. I did hear him really lay into his kids, but they were both like, "we didn't say that," "She's over-reacting..."
DH even had SS14 come apologize since he was the one that caused the problem. (See previous posts)
HI I KNOW EVERYONE GOES THROUGH A HARD TIME BUT ITS HOW FAR YOU LET IT GO. TODAY WAS THE DAY FOR ME. I OFFICIALLY FILED CHARGES AND THEY WERE ACCEPTED WITH THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY FOR HARASSMENT AND MENACING ON A STEPMOTHER. SHE WILL NEVER EVER AGAIN AND IF SHE DOES MAKE THREATS OR FALSE STATEMENTS ABOUT ME SHE WILL INDEED GO TO JAIL. ITS A PROCESS MY FRIENDS AND VERY EMOTIONAL BUT THAT IS THE KEY TO KEEP THE EMOTIONAL PART OUT OF IT AND END THE GAMES.
Ok, so unfortunately the life I had before my husband and kids came along, is non existent. I use to be very care free, positive and excited about life. I had friends and a social life. I loved to dance and go out. That's not me any more. That person doesn't exist. Having a major bout of depression. Life as a mom (aka - stepmommy) is not at all fulfilling. Like any mom would know, just about everything I do is taking for granted by kids (and even husband at times).
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