Update on Hating Valentines Day
If you haven't read my blog I HATE VDAY read that before this.
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If you haven't read my blog I HATE VDAY read that before this.
We're all snowed in together again today. Everything fine until DH says "Why can't you get happy!?"
I think he meant for it to be private, between the two of us, but SS14 entered the kitchen from the living room, and SD17 entered from her bedroom at the same moment he said it. SS14 had the brains to turn around and leave, but SD17 chimed in, "yeah, he's right. You're grumpy all the time. No one likes that."
So I found out the other day that BM is still using DH's last name. This I would not care about normally but she has REMARRIED. BM got married last July and still hasn't changed her last name. Are you really still that attached to DH? I let DH know that if I had known this before I changed my last name, I would not have done it until she changed hers. Anyone else have this problem? Feel the same way?
Do any of you dislike your hubby's BM just for the fact that she was married to your hubby? The reason i ask is i went over to my Ex's last night to drop some clothes of for our daughter. He lives with his GF that he has been with for a couple years now. When i got there i said hello to her she looked at me for like 5 min said hi and then went into the bedroom and i assume didnt come back out until i left. I dont get child support from my ex because we share true 50/50 custody with a week on week off schedule. I dont bug them at all.
I think I have mentioned here before that my BS18, is a drug addict. He was clean for about 6 months, and this weekend we had to kick him out of the house for drug use.
It was very hard for me to do. He is my first born, and it has always just been him and I for the longest time.
He is not a bad kid, just really really got off track. It was my decision to kick him out of the house, as I had set my bottom line as no drug's, drug use, drug stuff in the house. Well did a room search and found tons of crap.
So while DH was not working, never did I hear MIL say, "hey, don't pay his child support, that's his business..." Quite the contrary, when I had my baby, she came over and harrassed the crap out of me asking "haven't you bought bows for her for your house, doesn't she have X at your house, blah, blah, blah..."
So yesterday was SS10 birthday, BM usually calls for a 2 minute how are you on Saturday's and Sundays.... and SS10 is the one that talks to her more than SS13 dose. Well she didn't call on Saturday, so my Husband text messaged her just as a reminder not to forget to call on SS10's b-day. Well that call never came instead he got a short Happy Birday via e-mail, his comment was is that it? but the weekend before she was asking what he wanted for his b-day and making it sound like she was going to send him something, nothing came and no call.
We had SS10 this weekend, and whilst there were no major dramas, I'm getting increasingly frustrated with the whining & crying.
So, we were hit by the "storm of the century" Friday. Saturday morning, DH decides that he needs to go clear all 25" of snow RIGHT NOW. I took the opportunity to lounge on the sofa and watch. Too bad I didn't have potato chips (even at 7:30am).
So I decided to wear just some jeans and a black tee. I get to the bowling alley with Atilla and SIL is there in....drumroll please....dirty sweatpants and a used-to-be-white Donald Duck & Mickey oversized tshirt. I'm pretty sure if I hadn't peed before I got there, I would've done it with pride right in front of everyone. My other SIL walks in behind me and is setting down the gifts she brought, glanced at Evil SIL and whispers "Now we know why the lunchlady was more appealing." I had to pardon myself to the bathroom to laugh.